What is in the "contract" of marriage that woman always talk about? What "craziness" are women allowed to have that their husbands are supposed to put up with?
2006-08-03 09:12:41 · 13 answers · asked by thebuffettour 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have no idea! But I would like to know so that I can use that line on my husband. But I think that husbands should put up with an equal amount of craziness that the wives put up with.
2006-08-03 09:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm divorced now, but I didn't know about a "contract". HMMMMMM oh well, too late for that!! Anyways, maybe that means that women sometimes have mood swings. And it's really to be expected by the man to put up with us. I know that I am guilty of going from sweetie to ***** in a matter of seconds, but that's how women are. That's why you men love us so much!!!!
2006-08-03 16:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think the contract would be the wedding vows. Mine were to love, honor, and obey my husband. That's the contract I try to live by.
2006-08-03 16:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her the same way she treats you and if she says anything tell her "Oh I'm sorry you must have not read the fine print in the CONTRACT "and walk away. Defend yourself!! Good Luck!
2006-08-03 16:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Chivalry says, "Chivalry is not always up to man. Men should be respected as well. Marriage is not a treat-you-like-$#!+ promissory note. Both partners should be treated with respect and devotion. You have to straighten her out, while respecting her, of course. If you don't start somewhere, she will drag you anywhere."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-03 17:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a two way street my friend, believe me I put up with my fair share of crap, although I'm done and feel very sorry for the next person who knocks on my door. I will NEVER put up with it again, I'm going to turn into the ***** that I never was and could never understand before.
2006-08-03 16:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some woman think that since you married them that you agree to put up with all and any **** they want to dish out. You need to step up and put a stop to it. Thats what I had to do...and if you let it go on too long you wont be able to stop it.
2006-08-03 16:17:38 · answer #7 · answered by kbjcw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SPEAKING AS A WOMAN MYSELF, I THINK IT IS TOTALLY UNFAIR TO YOU TO HAVE TO PUT UP WITH HER CRAP- NICELY PUT.. SHE NEEDS TO GROW UP AND RESPECT YOU AS THE KING OF THE HOUSE. REMEMBER BACK IN THE MEDIEVIAL DAYS A QUEEN WOULDNT DARE TALK BACK TO HER HUSBAND NOR GIVE HIM ANY DIFFICULTIES. YOU GOT YOURSELF A REAL "QUEEN" THERE. SOUNDS LIKE SHE HAS PERSONAL ISSUES AND YALL NEED TO GET SOME MARRIAGE COUNSELING BECAUSE THIS GIRL IS THROWING IN YOUR FACE AND GIVING STUPID EXCUSES TO TREAT YOU LIKE TRASH. I FEEL SORRY FOR YOU- I PITY HER... MY MOMMA ALWAYS TOLE ME, IF YOU DONT TREAT YOUR HUSBAND WELL, THEN THERE WILL BE ANOTHER WOMAN OUT THERE WHO WILL THAT YOU WONT KNOW ABOUT. BOTTOM LINE SHE IS DISRESEPECTING YOU AS A MAN AND AS A HUSBAND.
2006-08-03 16:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by Holla!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her divorce has a contract to and it doesn't involve putting up with her.
2006-08-03 16:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by LB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything she wants, and the fun part is that the "contract" can change at any point and for any reason :)
2006-08-03 16:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋