I'm embarressed to admit that at 25 I dated much. I'm committed to improving my social skills and confidence level little by little and I'm starting my setting little goals for myself. A friend suggested I make a list of goals and new habits. Any suggestions?
Everyday talk to a girl I don't know
Ask one girl a week for her telephone number (suggestion from a friend)
2006-08-03 09:10:07 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Take a Dale Carnegie course, or read one of his books.
http://local.yahoo.com/results?stx=dale%20carnegie%20training
http://www.dale-carnegie.com/search_courses/select_course_location.jsp?cCode=DCC
2006-08-03 09:12:37 · answer #1 · answered by ndtaya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can do that, but usually I set goals by making a list with checkboxes at the side and ensure that at the end of the year or whatever the time scale those goals are achieved. This includes even things that I want to be able to afford. It works. And as for your dating problems, I am similarly challenged so if you do find a way to excel in this field. Tell me!
2006-08-03 09:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get out there and meet people. It's hard, yes. Trust me I know.. but the more you do it the easier it becomes.
Perhaps the problem is that you're psyching yourself out.. your goal here should be to meet girls, not date them.. the dates will come in time.
Meet someone you find interesting, find out what you have in common, if you are having a good conversation, tell them! Tell them you enjoyed talking to them! Ask them if they'd like to get together for coffee or something sometime.. no pressure. You're not trying to get them in bed.. you are trying to get to know them.
If you are trying just to get them in bed.. well my friend, I hope that your ideals will change, because you would then be propagating the issue that makes it hard for guys to get to know attractive interesting women. However, if that is your goal, then check out the work of Ross Jeffries, I guess he'd help you on that quest. :\
2006-08-03 09:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by tcindie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i will tell you what give me best answer and i will feel better *_*.
OK i can help
1give me best answer
2 go on a vacation with you and your male friends
3 go to like a beach or something
4 go to parties
5 Get a girl drunk
6 let your friends have there way with her
7 blackmail her
8 then blackmail your friends
9 after you get what you want make copies
10 give them the tape
11 3 years later if one of them get married play the copy at his bachelor party
2006-08-03 09:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by Dum Spiro Spero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would start with your confidence. you can build this in what you do every day by knowing your doing the best you can
i would also set goals for the kind of girl you want by whats important to you.
date as much as you can it'll help you find more of what you want or don't want
don't just talk to them ask them out find out how are they with their family, or going out to eat with, do thay have goals, do they have a criminal record, are they responsable
2006-08-03 09:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by summera76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wish to improve yourself then it must come from within, not from without. Yes you do need help but the best helper you will ever need is your own heats. Try thinking for yourself and stop thinking that sexual contest is your only answer.
2006-08-03 09:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the works of Miss Manners. Besides her column, she has written quite a few books.
2006-08-03 09:15:27 · answer #7 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um well u should go out as much as possible and talk to at least 3 girls. start small then u can go bigger like asking for phone numbers later just get comfortable first
2006-08-03 09:14:22 · answer #8 · answered by imakeithappen ; ) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 21:11:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you asked:
Goal:
Learn how to spell or use the spell checker.
Learn how to structure a sentence.
Not trying to be critical, but if you want people to take you seriously, then you need to clean it up. This in turn will increase your confidence.
http://www.factmonster.com/ipka/A0882902.html
:-)
2006-08-03 09:31:59 · answer #10 · answered by Leadfoot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋