Today is my Birthday i want to go play pool with my friends get wasted have fun.
My wife wants to go out with her firends to dinner ...i dont like her friends at all.Not only that i dont enjoy my wifes company she's boreing, why the hell do i have to go out with her friends for my birthday?She has one male friend he's gay im not.I got nothing against him just dont wanna be around him she thinks if she brings him along i wont feel left out
unreal so my question is do have to go ?what would you do
2006-08-03 09:09:08 · 18 answers · asked by bluff_mike 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
She is not thinking about you. Like all women, she does what she wants with no consideration for anyone else.
Do what you want to do for a change.
2006-08-03 09:18:43 · answer #1 · answered by Freakzilla 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Seeing as how it is YOUR birthday, you should be able to make the plans for the evening. You should just simply explain to the wife that you are always going out with her friends, and you want this night to be special. After all, you only get one birthday a year! You should not have to spend it not enjoying yourself.
If you don't want to be sleeping on the couch for the next year or so, perhaps a compromise is the answer! You can always go to dinner with her friends, then after you are done, you can go hang with the guys, and begin the celebration. Even if it is a late dinner, you can still get in some serious "drinking time" before last call! If wifey does not want to go out and have some beers, she could always just stay with her group of friends at the restaurant.
I hope she will be flexible to what you want to do on your birthday. Just remind her that you will let her do anything she wants on her birthday.
Good luck! And let me be the first to raise a "cool one" in your honor... Happy Birthday.
2006-08-03 16:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by jam961 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for starters if you wife is so boring why are you still with her?
You don't have to like her friends.
She is planning a birthday party for you and you should go with them .. ask your friends to come along that way you will have your friends to talk to she will have hers and then you will both be happy and not causing any problems in the family.. If allowable in your house hold that she lets you go out with the guys continue on after her part of your birthday is over.. after all she is trying to do something nice for you.. try to appreciate it.
And a gay man is better company than a bunch of women friends of your wifes.. He knows you aren't gay and won't bother you so what do you have issues with..? go have a good time..
go to the party.
2006-08-03 16:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is being selfish if she wants you to go out with her friends instead of your own on your birthday.
However, how sad that you do not enjoy your wife's company.
I say go play pool but ask your wife to come along.
Happy Birthday, by the way!
2006-08-03 16:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think dinner is probably the best choice.. Who needs to go out and get WASTED for their birthday. Why don't you grow up? if you are married why do you not WANT to spend time with your wife? And she is boreing?? Nice Husband. Hope you two are happy!
2006-08-03 16:14:58 · answer #5 · answered by Beebopz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. You shouldn't have to spend time on your birthday with her friends. Sounds like your wife is wanting to hang out with her friends rather than do what you want. I say the two of you should compromise and have a romantic dinner alone.
2006-08-03 16:13:46 · answer #6 · answered by vato_loco_in_Texas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would thank her for the suggestions, but tell her what you would like to do, if that does not work then compromise, spend a little time with her and then go out and play pool, and get wasted. Happy Freakin Birthday..
2006-08-03 16:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for your wife because you don't want to be around her. Why do you think she's so boring? It sounds to me like you haven't grown up yet. Although I do agree with you that you should be able to be with whatever company you choose on your birthday. But I would hope that you would choose to share it with the person you love. Grow up!
2006-08-03 16:17:55 · answer #8 · answered by reese172003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're married so comprimise. Have a nice dinner with you're wife's friends. Also tell her you already have plans with your friends to go out and you're going, but she's welcome to come with you. She is your wife, but it's your birthday. If she doesn't like the comprimise ask her if she'd like the same treatment on her birthday if she wanted to do something different from what you suggested.
2006-08-03 16:31:55 · answer #9 · answered by grayk51 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you are feeling. It's your birthday you should get to go do what you want. But include her in yoru plans with the fellas or at least attempt to or she will feel hurt.
2006-08-03 16:13:26 · answer #10 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the rule is......and i say this because my birthday is tomarrow.....that it's YOUR birthday and you and ONLY YOU...get to choose how you want to spend it. if she doesn't get that then she sounds selfish and controlling. it would be nice if you took your wife with you, or spend the night with your buddies and then save saturday for a romantic birthday dinner with her.
2006-08-03 16:19:58 · answer #11 · answered by leftbrainedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋