2006-08-03 08:59:58 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Only if we're both friends and she is not hanging out with him without me. It also works the other way.
2006-08-03 09:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i have all male friends a couple girls very few they talk toooooooooooo much never mind their own business if they have any of their own all my friends are male if u love the person you must trust no trust no love i am proud to say my male friends are the best always there 4 me no matter what what time what the problem & i told my husband from the beginning if you cant deal with it there will be no marriage for i treassure their friendship stop being so offensive is that cause u cant be friends with a female without screwing her
2006-08-03 11:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband doesn't like for me to hold a conversation with any of his friends, so I know that having male friends would be a problem. That's too bad because some of the best friendships that I have had have been with guys.
2006-08-03 09:04:54 · answer #3 · answered by Keke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be. For the most part if the are "just friends" they could hang out and have fun together. I do not think that I would like it if they started seeing each other multile times a week, but 1 a month or so I would be fine with.
2006-08-03 09:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by warriormoonrising 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how she met him or where. forsay she met him at abar with u, the guy offers her adrink . i think either you all are mutually doing something together or is she going out with him alone? i'm not saying it cant happen but really isn't smart. if they're trying to be friends away from you i would question it. has your sexlife changed at all? it would either get really good maybe she'll try something new or it will become exstinct. just some thoughts to ponder. ultimately how do you feel about it? obviously your not comfortable so is there really anything to discuss. if you dont' feel right she shouldn't do it. it's your wife.
2006-08-03 09:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by shotts 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not a male BUT if I was then no you never know what can happend you know the asaying of how best friends van fall in love and start dating alot of that happends and some people in there mine is saying go for himive been with hjim all my life
2006-08-03 09:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by Felicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A loving relationship is built on trust. It would not be my place to replace my women's male friends. So long as they are just friends, and I have no reason to mistrust her, then yes, I would be very cool with my women having male friends, and I would expect her to be cool with me having female friends as well
2006-08-03 09:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had no problem with it until my wife and him started having an affair. Now that he is gone her old buddy Joe B is always calling her. I have issues with him because my wife told me he was having an affair years ago. It can be OK, but when your trust has been broken, its no good for the marrige. I want him gone too.
2006-08-03 09:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by paulsexpress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she had male friends before you, so why would she give them up? I had a spouse who was absolutely livid when I spoke to my male friends and basically wanted to delete all past friendships (male and female). To say he was controlling and jealous would be an understatement. If you trust your significant other than I say let her remain friends with whomever she chooses.
2006-08-03 09:08:41 · answer #9 · answered by dufus4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look out of my own experince hell no!!!!!!! Before I was cool with it but not only once but twice I have been stabbed in the back by letting this go on. So no I wouldn't be okay with it.
2006-08-03 09:07:52 · answer #10 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋