My personal life is boring. I want to have a mate to do things with one day, but until then, I just want to get out and do some things that I can enjoy alone or with others. I am not into wild and crazy things. I don't drink or smoke. I do have a car and don't mind driving, but not too far. I like r&b, hip-hop, and soul music. I like to dance, but I'm not a Soul Train dancer. I'm a bit conservative but I do know how let my hair down. I have a great sense of humor. I like good, clean fun. I am a divorced mother of two with a 8-5 job and weekends off. I like to read and write. Am I a nerd or a stick in the mud? HELP! I forgot how to have fun because it's been so long since I had it.
2006-08-03 08:46:15 · 10 answers · asked by intentionalmasterpiece 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
My girls are 11 & 14 and have their own interests now but they still like spending time with me. We go shopping or hang out at the mall once a week, depends on if I have any money. I'm not Ms. New Booty so I won't be standing in the park singing about my booty. I know that I need to get laid but right now I have no prospects, and I refuse to give it up until I meet someone who loves and respects me.
2006-08-03 09:46:04 · update #1
Find a library or a bookstore with a cafe in it, just sit and read and enjoy the day, maybe you'll meet someone! Where I live there's a convenient little public park right next to one of the libraries. I also like walking around in our city's 'historical downtown' because there's a lot of neat little gift shops, restaurants, cafes and this really great used bookstore...wow now I want to go down there and just walk around for a while! Hope I could help a little :)
2006-08-03 09:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Luveniar♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I hope you get some great ideas here. I'll throw you some thought and hopefully that will help too. number one find some cool fun things to do with kids go to the park throw a Frisbee have a water balloon, fight get a puppy, have a special movie day, go to a petting zoo or playground that being said I know you are longing for some adult interaction so one you can invite neighbors and kids along on the play dates or you can join in on any type group through church or community join a theater group or singing group find out what you loved to do before the kids and pursue it again and who knows you might find someone that has the same interest than you .
2006-08-03 08:56:41 · answer #2 · answered by magicboi37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I live in Atlanta so I don't know where you are or what's available in your area. But it seems like what you need is a lounge type club where you can sit and listen to head bobbin music while watchin other people dance. Most clubs have cigarette smoke though so that may bother you since you don't smoke. Join a health club whether you're trying to meet someone or just have a way to blow off steam. Any sport or physical game is good for you ... as long as you have fun. Overall I would suggest you use the internet to search for clubs, restaurants, fashion shows, etc in your town and venture out until you find one that's appealing.
2006-08-03 08:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by elthe3rd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first, try to stop defining yourself by your status as a mother and by what you do for a living. Now, think what fills you with excitement....
You might try attending a jazz club, a comedy show, taking a 2-3 day trip on a cruise ship (lots of new things to try on these cruises, including dancing and if you can afford and want to take your kids, there are activities for them, separate from yours).
If you like to read and talk, join a book club or start one of your own! Take an art class or any type of class that peaks your interest. Train for a marathon (http://www.teamintraining.org/hm_tnt)
2006-08-03 08:59:53 · answer #4 · answered by ldylili 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that been a single mom it is very important.. You already work until 5 in the evening, why don't you use your weekends to do things with your kids.. Go to a movie, take them to Chuck E Cheeses, go to the pool. Enjoy them they grow old quickly.. I am a mom of 3 and have no time to do anything for me.. when I have some time I prefer to sleep and rest. My 6 year old son constantly tells me I am boring, I am just tired, not that young anymore.. My advice whatever time you have give it to the kids... They can be good companions.....
2006-08-03 08:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly,TX 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand in the park singing "Booty booty booty booty rockin everywhere"
2006-08-03 08:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...I don't blame you for asking! I sometimes feel the same way...Try going to movies, go to a ladies' night bar and enjoy yourself, take walks on weekends, etc.
2006-08-03 08:52:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to learn something new. a hobby or something that might interest you. keep your communication line with friends. or meet someone new. give yourself a break.
2006-08-03 08:52:44 · answer #8 · answered by rainman1987 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out on a date with me
2006-08-03 08:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by eassoon2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont take this the wrong way but you need to get laid
2006-08-03 08:50:24 · answer #10 · answered by asshole 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋