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Question

would u get mad at your bf if you caught him looking at lingerie sites? He says its b/c he likes lookin at lingerie, but i think he likes looking at the women.

Answer 1

personally, i wouldn't be very mad. he's a guy...he's got raging testosterone. the number one fact of life that you can't change: when you ask a man "did you just look at her?" the real answer is yes....but just because they're looking doesn't mean that they're cheating, comparing them to you, etc. it's just a guy thing. i wouldn't worry too much about it. if you really have a problem about it tell him. if he respects where you're coming from he'll at least listen and offer up his side of the story and maybe make a compromise with you.

Answer 2

No I wouldn't get mad but he had better be getting me some lingerie while he's looking. There's nothing wrong with him looking at the pictures on the site. Now if you catch him looking at a real woman in your bedroom with lingerie on, it's time to walk. Or if you catch him looking at something horrible like child porn, he's a sicko. But lingerie sites are small in the big scheme of things that he could be looking at on the internet. You could ask him what's his favorite style and color of lingerie and get some if you like it too. Give him a striptease down the lingerie. Change it up on him and get his attention. Don't trip when it's minor. Save the tripping for the real big stuff. Go get him girl!

Answer 3

Are you insecure of a magazine or a on line picture? If so you need to check yourself and you need not trip cause you can mess around and push him away~ There is nothing wrong with him looking at a magazine or a on line lingerie sites. At least he is not looking at the girls around your way~ He is human he will look~ As long as the site is not running up no bills, I would care less. He is with you, so why not ask him do they make you horny? Can't be in a relationship and not ask questions.

Answer 4

Here's on scenario: He looks at lingerie sites because he doesn't want to pay to get into a porn site. He'll be looking at porn before you know it.

Here's scenario #2: He likes to imagine what he would look like in women's lingerie. His favorite movie is Rocky Horror Picture Show.

Answer 5

U should be worried either way if he likes looking at lingerie maybe hes a cross-dresser and if he likes looking at the women...maybe you should get urself some lingerie

Answer 6

No I would not get mad. Looking is just that, looking ... whether he's looking at the lingerie or the women ... it should be no skin off of your nose.

Answer 7

He probably really does like looking at lingerie, otherwise, he could be looking at porn sites. However, I would be concerned that he may be trying to buy some for himself!

Answer 8

no, heres why.

men like to look, which is fine, us girls, whether we admit it or not, look at other guys all the time, basically, everything is fine.. he can look he just can't touch. and whats safer than looking at a lingerie model in an online catalog!

Answer 9

You have to remember that guys are very visual. He probably is looking at the women but its not really a big deal. Let him look. As long as he doesn't touch its okay!!!

Answer 10

SO WHAT! Why do you care if he's looking at someone else? Guys are going to look. I don't care how much you b$%ch or nag he'll look. You need to be woman enough to know it's ok he's just looking it's me he wants, it's me he's with. When he does more than look then you leave his A@#.