He said that he didn't care about you or the baby because you wouldn't take him back because he was still cheating with this girl and you found out so he got mad at you. What would you do?
2006-08-03 07:59:58 · 23 answers · asked by SweetPea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would think that I wouldn't want this man in my childs life anyway. He isn't going to be a good role model. Be a strong woman, walk away, and raise your baby.
Good luck!
2006-08-03 08:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I am in law enforcement and you have several different options. First you can talk to him and if agrees to help out with the child and follows through with it that will be fine. Second if he refuses to have anything to do with it, you can (later on, after you give birth) and hire a lawyer to possibly have a DNA test to be for sure and to prove that it is his and that way he will be ordreed to help you support that child. Or three, just raise it yourself and not involve his father in his life at all. I would pick the second choice if I was a female and in your shoes. He is just thinking he will get by scott free.
2006-08-03 15:07:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt do anything, except file for child support, full custody, medical support, and that would be all. i wouldnt have nothing to do with him, i would be civil when n if he ever did want to see the child in the future but that would be it. there is too many ppl in the world to be stressed out by one man, and if u r pregnant why would u want someone like that anyways, focus on u and ur child n move on there is plenty of men who will still want u.. just play it all grown up and dont act like a child n do stupid stuff. u have a baby on the way now so act like a grown up n show ur child u love him/her and move on. good luck
2006-08-03 15:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a similar situation. Towards the end of my marriage I found out that I was pregnant with our second child. He had to audacity to tell me to terminate it because he was leaving. (I asked him to) I told him hell no! The unborn child has nothing to do with our break up. She is now 9 yrs old and all I can say is that it's his loss. If the father of your child does not want to be a part of its life, f*ck him! Your child does not need a dad like that. Take care of yourself and your child.
2006-08-03 15:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by gemone523 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's what happens when you get involved with the wrong guy.
Unfortunately, you should have NOT gotten pregnant in the first place ~~ and instead, TAKE TIME to find out what kind of guy this was that you were getting involved with. Too late now. All you can is be a good mother to your child. You can not make a PARENT BE A GOOD PARENT~!! He's a jerk ! too bad you didn't find that out FIRST!!!
2006-08-03 15:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first, i wouldn't be pregnant by a man who wouldn't care about our baby. I don't believe in abortion and so i would con't the pregnancy and dump him. he does not deserve to be a father. sounds like he has no maral character and certainly no traits of a role model for any child. this is harsh, but i don't want you wasting 5 yrs of your life coming to terms w/the reality of your situation. talk w/your local crisis pregnancy center and take care of you and your baby. God be with you--you have a miracle inside you!
2006-08-03 15:06:41 · answer #6 · answered by hopscothchbunnies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I would never have let myself get pregnant. Secondly I would, if it's not too late, get an abortion. If is too late, I'd have the baby and give it up for adoption. Then I'd get myself to a therapist and find out why I insist on screwing up my life by hooking up with worthless pieces of **** such as this loser.
2006-08-03 15:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I would want to kick the crap out of him, But then reality would set in and I'd have to figure out how I was going to raise the child. My concerns would be more about taking care of myself and the baby, forget about the loser. You deserve better!
2006-08-03 15:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd never see him again and make sure he could be near the baby. Move, if you have to. Just because you love this guy doesn't give you the right to let him ruin your baby's life.
2006-08-03 15:04:06 · answer #9 · answered by Flutter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Write the sorry SOB off...he's gone for good, and quite frankly...you should be glad.
2. When you have the baby, go to court and force him to pay as much child support as you can.
3. Stop spreading your legs for BS-talking pieces of sh*t like that to cram their pecker in you.
2006-08-03 15:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋