WELL THERE'S THIS GUY THAT I GUESS YOU CAN SAY WE ARE DATING. AND I TOLD HIM I WASN'T A VIRGIN, BUT I AM. AND NOW HE WANTS TO HAVE SEX, WELL SO DO I BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. DO I PRETEND LIKE I KNOW WHAT I'M DOING. PLEASE HELP...
2006-08-03 07:48:58 · 11 answers · asked by YourGirl08 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't know how old you are, but come clean! If you guys are serious enough to be having sex, then you should be able to let him know you lied to, whatever the reason, sound more mature etc. Everyone's afraid they won't know what to do their first time, so was I, but I've never heard of someone "not doing it right". So, don't worry about that. As long as you love and respect this guys (and he does for you too) your first time should be amazing because you'll be comfortable. Not to mention, he'll probably take it slower (which is WAY more fun) if he knows you've never done it before.
2006-08-03 07:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by zetamomma 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
nope u tell him u lied about bein a virgin n all tell him u dient think he would like u if u was a virgin and that u want to have sex with him but u want to make sure u enjoy it as well so to be easy n go slow at first bc u r nervous and all. if he is a good boyfriend he will respect u for it good luck n use protection
2006-08-03 07:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys want that, just remember 18 minutes of fun can turn into 18 years of responsibility. another thing to think about, you will be tied to this guy for the rest of your life if you have a kid. talk to him about kids before you decide anything. If you guess you maybe possibly be dating it sounds like you or him are not sure about the relationship.
2006-08-03 08:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by Adam B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont pretend because he will know be honest with him and make sure that he is the one u want to be the first and all or u will regret it years down the road if i could go back and change that i would good luck
2006-08-03 07:53:42 · answer #4 · answered by spoyledmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be open and honest with him, tell him you're a virgin. I mean he's going to know it anyway so tell him now. You shouldnt have started your relationship on a lie but now you have a chance to redeem yourself. Just be open and honest.
2006-08-03 07:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by snugglesbunni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not good, thats already one lie and you just started the relationship I assume. Let the truth be known before any longer. The truth shall set you free-goes the old cliche.
2006-08-03 07:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all u shouldn't have lied and secound i think u should tell him u are a virgin and you don't have to have sex if u don't want to its a choice not a command
2006-08-03 07:55:15 · answer #7 · answered by lil sad diva princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can just tell you this --- give up. You STARTED a relationship based on a lie. Bad news.
2006-08-03 07:51:56 · answer #8 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex lasts a moment ---- Being a parent will last your whole life!!!
2006-08-03 07:53:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him know how you feel and let thing s lead and try not to tense up you have to relax and see what happenes
2006-08-03 07:54:28 · answer #10 · answered by modiey_blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋