i dont share them it gets me into too much trouble...
2006-08-03 07:46:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I maintain a discreet distance from most people with personal information about myself, up to and including feelings. This is because people can and will damage you with personal information given half a chance. But with people I love or am very close to, I try to share my feelings for two important reasons:(1) Staying closed off is damaging to a person emotionally and physiologically. And gaining fresh perspectives from people I trust ensures my thinking process is in tact. (2) People who go too long being closed off emotionally become incapable of sustaining relationships, even when they really want to. I hope this is a useful perspective for you.
2006-08-03 08:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I seem to keep my feelings bottled up.... but let me tell you, it is not the right thing to do. When you keep your feelings all bottled up and don't tell anyone what you are thinking or feeling, then you tend to sometimes feel depressed or lonely. When my uncle died a year ago on August 1, 2005, I was devastated. I didn't tell anyone the way I felt about what happened and then about a month or two later, me and my sister got into a fight and I said a lot of mean things that I didn't mean to say about her. Later that night, I cried myself to sleep knowing that why I said that was because od the loss of my uncle. I talked to my mom about my uncle the day after that and I felt much better. After that happened, I just started to tell what I was feeling and it was a lot easier. Let your feelings out and let people know what you are feeling and you will feel much better inside!
2006-08-03 07:57:50 · answer #2 · answered by chocolatepig3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what feelings and situation it is. feelings when shared will make me light. DO NOT SHARE WHAT YOU FEEL WILL GET YOU IN TROUBLE !
In sway of emotions mind does not work! Before sharing think twice or postpone it, you will be clear when brain starts working.
2006-08-03 07:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by pramod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends what it is thats bothering me if i know i'd get in trouble for it i'd keep it bottled up or write it down to get rid of it that way only i can know so you won't get in trouble but if its something you can tell anyone u trust well u can share it theres nothin wrong with it really but sometimes it is
2006-08-03 07:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by lil sad diva princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time I keep them bottled up but every once in a while it springs a leak and my feelings come rushing out.
2006-08-03 07:50:39 · answer #5 · answered by Tom Sawyer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have anyone you can share them with, it can get you in even more trouble.
2006-08-03 07:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love to share how i feel but i try 2 put it in a calm and respectful way.
2006-08-03 07:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya me 2
it depends on what feelings i have some i share and the others r still inside me i hate it so much
2006-08-03 07:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by Tite Chickaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i share them whit the right person at the right time...but most of the time when that person isnt around i keep them bottled up for some reason...
2006-08-03 07:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always tell everything to my boyfriend joe no matter how much trouble i could get in or how stupid it is. He's my best friend.
2006-08-03 08:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋