this is starting to bother me how bout you?

Question

how come many of the adults on here think teens cant be love?? i believe you can fall in love at any age. why are they putting an age limit on it? its stupied. i am 15 and am madly in love with my boyfriend. you can tell me im to young or its not real or that its puppy love but youd be wrong. i know my heart and i love him and me and all the other teens on here are not to young to experience love. so why do people judge when they dont know us or what we feel?

i AM NOT too young if ur gonna say that go f uck yourself. i know how i feel

some of u ppl are so bullheaded. i do too know what it is. and i know ppl who have been dating since they were younger than me and are now married and "i am 14" sure ill be ur friend =]

Answer 1

i agree with you Kat i agree adults do put age limits

Answer 2

I don't think we adults are saying you can't feel love. Of course you can. But because we are adults, we have EXPERIENCE that you guys don't. I am 32 years old and looking back now at my life when I was a teenager, I didn't know anything about myself or the real world or what love was. But at the time I thought I did. The reason we are putting limits on it is because WE'VE BEEN THERE. Teenagers tend to think they know everything, but trust me, you don't. High school is like a little pretend "let's play grown-up" world. The real world is alot different.

I think that many teenagers focus too much on boyfriends/girlfriends and neglect other parts of their life that are more important, like school, friends, family, etc. I see so many young people here who are asking questions about sex, marriage, pregnancy, etc. You have your WHOLE LIFE for those things after high school is over. Focus now on the things that will make you a responsible, successful adult and you will laugh later in life about what you thought was love when you were 15.

And don't think I'm talking down to you, because I've been there too. Every adult was a teenager once. We're just speaking from experience, my dear.

Answer 3

All adults have been there. You think you are in love when your young and no one can tell you otherwise. And im not on here to tell you how you feel or anything.

But, you are only 15 and you have a lot more mental maturing to do. You definition of love will change as you get older and experience new things. This is why adults say that teens dont know what true love is.

Besides that you shouldnt be so pressed about being in love. You have a lot of other things that you should be concerned with right now besides that. I know it sounds like we are preaching to you on here but, we are right.

Answer 4

Asking for a why and then saying to **** off when people answers shows a certain lack of maturity and not really wanting an answer.

Yes, you can love at any age. I don't disagree with you. But most young people in north america have no clue about the world outside high school and dating and IM and text messaging. (I said most, not all.) Love, however, it not the have all, end all of relationships. Liking and respecting are all on equal footing with love, possibly higher because love alone is not enough to base a marriage/long term relationship.

Answer 5

Most teens are too young and too immature to understand the entire ramifications of a lifelong commitment, which is what real love should be. It also involves the ability to be financially, morally, and spiritually willing and able to commit to a family, in case an accidental pregnancy occurs. Anything less is merely infatuation, puppy love, or a crush.
We can honestly say this because we went through the same as you and OUR parents said the same things we do now. When you grow up, you'll realize that you too sound more like your parents than you ever dreamed possible.

Answer 6

People shouldn't say it isn't love. I think they forget what it feels like to be a teenager in love. There is a difference between kid love, teenage love, and 20 something love. Teenage love a lot of time doesn't last because the two people grow apart, go to different schools, make new friends, have different experiences, and they mature. That doesn't mean your love wasn't real, it just means your love didn't mature, as you guys matured.

Maybe you and your boyfriend have a love that will stand the test of time and change and grow as you both change and grow. It can happen, but more times then not it doesn't. Good luck.

Answer 7

I am 16.Thats EXACTLY what I say. Me and my girlfriend are completely in love. We have both never felt feelings like this before in our life. We know we are completely in love, we can make it through anything.. and everytime we see each other we get a tingly feeling knowing that we already have found the person of our dreams. I tell people that we are in love and they just say its puppy love and **** like that and it pisses me off! No matter what anyone says I know we are in love and thats all that counts. As long as u dont let it get to u, and u know urself that u love ur partner then dont worry about what other people say. Dont let anyone or anthing get inbetween u's. It DEFINATLEY can be true love at any age. Just most of the time it doesnt happen at that age, and most parents never had it happen to them, so they think its impossible. My mom believes me tho because shes had friends that were 16 years old when they started dating, and now they are happily married. But most people tell me that its puppy love, but oh well. Just listen to your heart.

Answer 8

yea i totally agree with you!!! you are NEVER too young to be in love!! i first fell in love with my boyfriend when i was 14 and i am now 19 and i am still with him. I always hated when adults use to tell me that i wasn't really in love, i would always say "how the **** do you know if im in love or not, its my relationship, my life and NOBODY could tell me that i wasn't in love" also many adults think that teenage pregnancys are going to end up bad, ok for one alot of the teens who get pregnant are already upset that the are going to be parents at that age and assholes answer their questions only telling them the bad things that will probably happen. so yea to the person who wrote this question i REALLY agree with you!!!

Answer 9

I think you are in love...but lots of young people end up breaking up or going through a divorce because they change so much and don't know how to handle the rough times and stick it out. It is too easy to just give up. And when one person has given up and the other person wants to stay together, it is even harder to work things out. I wish you the best! Good Luck and God Bless you

Answer 10

well people may say ur to young to love but really u love ur mom and dad at the age of 2 and that is love and u know how u care for them so why cant u love eney other person on this world ??? u are right

Answer 11

Because you have no idea what love is yet. I didn't, you don't, nor does anyone else your age or that has been your age.

"i AM NOT too young if ur gonna say that go f uck yourself. i know how i feel"

proves the point, you're not enough of an adult yet to express yourself like one, you're not enough of an adult to have adult feelings.