he show me a book that his wife made to him,it's a lot of pictures of them,they look all happy, it really hurt me, he was all sorry but I cannot be between them. That is unfair. He told me that was a time ago, like trying to tell me that right now is different. But I don't know what to think. I love him, and I feel he loves me too, but I think that is not enough. I would like to let him go, but I think he does not want it, and I don't want it either, it is a very difficult situation. Please help me.
2006-08-03 07:41:35 · 3 answers · asked by ema 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well start by distancing yourself from this guy. He has a wife and no matter what they say or do, half of the time they do it cuz you let them and not cuz they love you. His not going anywhere if he showed you their pics don't you think he loves her enough to share it with you. No guy in there right mind will show you their pics if he loved you. First he won't want to hurt you by doing so. Second if he loves you then he will get out of the relationship without you being his mistress. Don't get in between cuz what goes around comes around. Put yourself in her shoes.
2006-08-03 07:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by dodgergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wording on the details are terrible! However I will say to just let him go if that plays over and over in your mind or you will never be satisfied I speak from experience> I am engaged to a man who was married twice before however I had to get over the fact that he was in prior relationships before me and that it is "The Past" and that I am sure that some memories he holds dear to his heart however, he divorced them due to cheating so ..........I guess that killed whatever would have lingered in him you know? I didn't meet with him until after these cheaters did him dirty. Cheaters will be just that cheaters men will normally stay loyal to the wife and cheat while woman who cheat normally leaves for the guy they cheated with! But in your case you will always be the other woman!
2006-08-03 07:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by souljagirpart2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about his wife/girlfriend. would you like to be her? don't believe him, if he wanted to leave her he would have. showing you those pics was his own little way of letting you know he's not planning on leaving.
move on to someone who wants to be with you and only you
2006-08-03 07:50:31 · answer #3 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋