i am 14 and think i am pregnant and me and my boy friend want to keep it and he asked me to be engadged to be engadged to be married to him and i said yes. my question is does this mean he loves me and the baby or what?
2006-08-03 07:19:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
we have dated since like 3ed grade
2006-08-03 07:22:46 · update #1
He said hunny i love you and have a question then asked me
2006-08-03 07:23:19 · update #2
i am telling my mom
2006-08-03 07:23:35 · update #3
We are Madly in love and He says I Love You to me alot but is he just saying it or what
2006-08-03 07:26:10 · update #4
we arnt getting married till we are 18 or older but we are promised to be engaded some day in the future
2006-08-03 07:27:47 · update #5
We are Keeping the baby and our parents dont know yet but we are all going out to dinner tomarow and we are telling them everything
2006-08-03 07:28:56 · update #6
i have asked him and he just says hunny i am here for u and love our little baby and u
2006-08-03 07:31:12 · update #7
i just took a test and now am waiting omg it is positive
2006-08-03 07:35:25 · update #8
in my state it is leagl for me to have sex. especialy when we both told each other it was okay and we are both 14
2006-08-03 07:40:25 · update #9
he loves me but i dont know wether to belive it or not
2006-08-03 07:41:07 · update #10
Yes i am Positive the test said i was and i fell like i am
2006-08-03 07:41:38 · update #11
I'm also 14. Does your mom know?
What is a 14 year old doing haveing sex and are you definently sure your pregnant ?
well I can't harp on you and tell you what a bad mistake that was now. I think that your boyfriend is only telling you that now.once he sees how much of a responcibility that is than he's probaly going to run. boys aren't very good when it comes to being mature.If i were you, I would deffinently keep the baby. and love it to death. Your going to really need to get prepared for that baby.
you need to work on how your going to tell your mom, in a way so she won't kill you.well it depends how your mom is.
you really shouldn't get married, your just not ready.you need schooling.if you were dumb enough to give your consent to have sex,then you really need some more schooling.
In a way, getting married could help you,* child support*.
but,getting married just for money is stupid and wrong,you should only get married if you love him,if your ready to spend enternity with him. someone were to come and either kill you or him, you have to ready to say, take me.
theirs also this little issue,with the police.in some states, its illegal to have sex when your under 16.it's called satitory rape. well actually i think if the person is 2 yrs. older that you and your both under 16. you can tell them all you want that you gave him the consent for sex and vice versa,but your both gonna get charged.this can only happen if you live in a state that does it and/or your mom/dad pressed charges.
don't get to worried,you just really should of thought this over
DON'T GET MARRIED THOUGH
2006-08-03 07:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very young, and yes it sounds like your boyfriend does love you, otherwise he would've left you knowing you may be pregnant, and he even asked you to marry him. That's so sweet! I think you're young to have a child but just keep a good head on your shoulders and I'm sure everything will be fine.
And you should tell your mom AND go to a doctor, or at least take a pregnancy test. BEST OF LUCK!!!
2006-08-03 14:28:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, from a mother's point of view: I think you are a little young to know what it is like to care for a baby, how much it COSTS to care for an infant and how your social life will suffer because that baby will demand every minute and breath you have until it is of legal age. Also I think maybe your boyfriend doesn't realize what it takes either. I think your family and your boyfriends family should sit down and decide together what to do about this.
2006-08-03 14:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i agree with the first one you are NEVER to young to be in love. maybe to be a parent yes but if you are pregnant then its not the end of the world. many people out there act like a teenager getting pregnant is the end of the world because they always think of the bad thing that could happen. yes you do have to think of those too but think of the good things about having a baby. im really glad that your boyfriend is taking responsibility!!! also i hope that you and him don't grow apart. If you are pregnant then i wish you the best of luck. and yes it does sound like he loves you and your baby. Good luck!!! and don't listen to all those people who don't have faith in you.
2006-08-03 14:43:13 · answer #4 · answered by ~ goth ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude...YOUR ONLY 14!!! I'm 13 and I wouldn't even dare have sex!! I'm not trying to be mean but seriously you have a full life ahead of you!!! If your boyfriend is also 14, that means his maturity is only at the level of about a 12 year old. It's scientifically proven. Don't decide your entire future at 14 I mean seriously use some common sense. and if you are joking- get a life.
2006-08-03 14:28:31 · answer #5 · answered by Taylor Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering you "think" your pregnant... I hope your not because thats tough work for someone you age. If you ARE pregnant... good luck. I am sure he really does love you. You are too young to get married though, as I am sure you know. Engagement is a big step too... but hey, so is a baby. I don't think he would ask you to marry him if he didn't love you... not even just for the baby.
2006-08-03 14:28:07 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he says he wants to get married someday, that he loves you. When someone marries you, you give basically almost your whole life up to them. But you also have to remember that you'll be with him the rest of your life. So it's a big decision. But about the baby, you should keep it.
2006-08-03 16:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its against the law for a 14 year old to get married. Hopefully you are not pregnant because you clearly need to be better educated
2006-08-03 14:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by Alissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should give it up for adoption and it could be an open adoption if you try taking care of this baby right now it will be hard and you him and the baby will probally be poor and just getting by for the rest of this baby's life unless your parents are rich but you dont want to be so dependent so either get an abortion or give it up for adoption it will be fine if he loves you you guys can wait ......... and he could just be scared................ i hope everything works out......... i am just telling it how i see it.
2006-08-03 14:58:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's trying to make te best of the situation, maybe, he probably loves you. i have some ?'s myself: is it legal in your state to get married? how are you gonna support yourself and the baby? where are you going to live? i think you should wait a while before you get married
2006-08-03 15:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by [dANiiE♥♫]™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋