The girl I am with is great, we have love we care for each other but she is a freak...lack of a better word...normal sex doesn't do it for her...she needs belts, marks, domination, choking and all that stuff....and I am happy to oblige but I am a laid back guy but I can have fun but is this healthy? Will we be able to maintain a good relationship if our sex life is going to be so twisted...I mean don't get me wrong I am enjoying the ride but she wants me to hurt her...that can't be normal..can it?
2006-08-03 07:15:03 · 15 answers · asked by Confused Friend 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you don't like it then find someone else.
2006-08-03 07:18:18 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the both of you are happy with the way everything goes, it is fine!! The typical definition of a "relationship" and its sexual acts should not hold you back from your best type of loving that you enjoy this point in your life. It may stay this way forever or you may choose to go a different direction in your future...make sure whatever it is you are comfortable!
2006-08-03 14:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pal, you need to talk with her seriously. I like what you are saying about her, all guys do, but this kid of sex won't last over 3 years in a row. So you have to tell her to cut back on the sex part, instead of 7 time a week, to twice a week. Other wise you will be dead tired at work.
2006-08-03 14:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Healthy? Depends on the specifics.
Sex is an important part of a healthy relationship, so as long as you both have fun doing it, party on.
And dude, I am sorry, complaining about your woman being too wild? Are you sure you should even be with a woman?
2006-08-03 14:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by Mick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to her, but its not normal to you to make the process painful. It seems as though you enjoy everything else. As you said you are a laid back person and all of the freakiness is not your cup of tea. Does she know you feel this way honey? I think you need to tell her.
2006-08-03 14:50:00 · answer #5 · answered by kenyacfld 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal for her but if you don't keep up with her you may loose her fast this is what she considers fun.
But is related to something happening in her childhood she maybe was abused talk to her if you care about her, but enjoy the ride and put more effort to keep her happy.
2006-08-03 14:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my girl is the same way so i checked out a few bdsm websites and after much discussion we have intered into a dom/sub relationship when it comes to sex. right now she is under a 60 day training period. my wish is her command and she will obey or face punishment. yes it can be completely healthy.
2006-08-03 14:23:39 · answer #7 · answered by rich_goodman2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not comfortable in the position of dominance this is not the girl for you,the last thing you want is to get used to being the bringer of pain and carry it to the next relationship and wind up getting arrested for it talk to her.
2006-08-03 14:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by angelina_mcardle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea dude. I like to get a little crazy in bed too but that is going too far for me. I couldn't date a guy who was into that.
2006-08-03 14:20:07 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys don't get it on the regular homeboy. Expand your horizons a little bit, you might and up liking yourself. Always remember this. If you don't want to give it to her, she can always find someone that will.
2006-08-03 14:28:09 · answer #10 · answered by shizzy0117 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are unsure of doing it then find a girl that u r more comfortable with and i am sure she will find a man that takes pleasure in doing it to her.
2006-08-03 14:19:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋