see i have a boyfriend and yet i have alot of guyfriends and when he is around them he acts kinda funny like hes jeolous......what should i do?
2006-08-03 07:13:59 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Keep the guyfriends, definitely! Friends last long past romantic relationships, with very rare exceptions.
However, to make your new b/f comfortable, ask him where his limits are. Does it bug him when you hug your guyfriends? Then back off that when he's around. Does it bug him when you talk to them? Dump the b/f. Does it bug him when you kiss your guyfriends? Dear, if you're kissing them they're more than friends.
2006-08-03 07:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by barbara 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it's really ok and very nice having boyfriend but it's to you to know how to live with him but if he is really jeolous tell him that you love him very much and so you will never let him go for anyother guy 'cause he is the boy of your heart. just contact me after by sending me your email, next for more information.
2006-08-03 07:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend is a guy! My boyfriend is jealous of it but he also knows I am with him every night and nobody else...plus my friend isn't attractive in anyway so I suppose that helps with the jealousy issue! Just let your boyfriend know that he is the hottest guy ever and you would never cheat on him with anyone and that you want him to be friends with your friends to because it would make you really happy!
2006-08-03 07:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Pamcake*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just spend extra time with him. I have a boyfriend and a few guyfriends. They get along pretty well.
2006-08-03 07:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by ashcatash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how would you react if he had a lot of female friends that he hung around with when you weren't there? I bet you'd react the same as any woman out there in an exclusive relationship...you would be peeved. There's nothing wrong with you having guy friends, but they need to friends to BOTH of you and only visited when BOTH you AND your b/f are there. If he doesn't like one, you should respect that....IF you really do love him.
2006-08-03 07:19:11 · answer #5 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Because that is a normal thing I look at things as if my boyfriend was to break up with it will not hurt so much cause you never know one of your friend may like you and you may start to develop feelings for that person.
2006-08-03 07:18:04 · answer #6 · answered by Fannie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he sounds a bit jealous, but that is human nature. He does not sound very secure in the relationship. But if you are flirting with these guys then I can see why. You need to reassure him that he is the man you love, and they are just friends.
2006-08-03 07:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell him to stop being a jealous bf. My ex was jealous too because i kick it with pure guys at school and there all football players. but i made him understand that i will kick it with my homies no matter what. and plus doesn't he have girl-friends? Bring that point up to him...
2006-08-03 07:21:34 · answer #8 · answered by **L¡Z 88** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally fine to have guy friends and a boyfriend but try to hang out with your boyfriend a little more and show him more love than you would with your guy friends. But try to limit your time spent with your guy friends and more with your Boy friend. Hope this helps!!!
2006-08-03 07:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ [þæ] ツ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine. Some boys get nervous when their girl is around other girls for you know obvious reasons, just make it sure that they are just friends and not anything more so he doesn't get the wrong idea.
2006-08-03 07:16:57 · answer #10 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋