you see i love this man i have never even layed eyes on, we have great phone sex, he makes me feel alive and love from the bottom of my soul..we are both divorced but have children. we live 800 miles away from each other.. I love him so much...really i do...where do we go from here???
2006-08-03 07:12:31 · 3 answers · asked by JACKIE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need a reality check: Don't be an idiot and do something rash. Everyone knows that long distance relationships are extremely intense and fool both parties into thinking that it is more than what it really is. Your situation is textbook, as in one million people go through the same emotions that you do every single day and it is nothing new. They all end up realizing that they were over-romanticizing the situation into something it wasn't, which is what you are currently doing.
I'm sure you are probably thinking is that you have met your soulmate, or something ridiculous like that. He's not your soulmate.
How can you love someone you haven't even met? Let's be real here, okay? It's not love, it's lust. You have no idea what he's like in a real world situation. Everyone is great when times are good, but it's only when times go bad when you can really differentiate between truly good people and *******. Would he make you sleep on the floor if there was only room for one person on the bed? Would he take your credit card and pay for his gas when he borrows your car? There are so many aspects to who he is as a person that you know nothing about, yet you claim you love him? Please wake up.
Don't do something stupid like think about moving to him and uprooting your children over something as ridiculous as an Internet crush.
You need to understand that as long as there is no real relationship (you do NOT have a real relationship), that you are wasting your precious time. Don't fool yourself. This ranks on the same level as a summer-camp romance.
If you have no desire to get married again and every other aspect of your life is fulfilled, then keep on doing what you're doing, as long as you realize that it isn't real. But if you are looking for a real relationship, drop this notion that you love him and find someone you can actually interact with.
2006-08-03 07:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ken Jackson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"COUNSELING" you have got problems if you think this is love your feeling, go talk to a professional and get some real prospective on this situation you need it before he kills you the first time you try and meet him."HE IS A STRANGER DUMB AASSS" be a smart woman not a stupid dead one, there has to be men in your area you can meet get out of your house for once and meet real people.....
2006-08-03 14:21:41 · answer #2 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please you do not even know this person. There are so many predators on the internet, please be extremely careful. Really you do not want to even get involved with this person, there are too many unanswered questions that may get you in trouble.
2006-08-03 14:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋