me and my friends KK,HR,and KS we all don't get along if we are all together we fight all the time what should i do dump them as friends or keep them as friends??? PLEASE HELP ME THIS IS GETTING TO BE A REAL PROBLEM!!!???
2006-08-03 07:06:37 · 12 answers · asked by GREATGRL 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, if you are all fighting, then why are you still friends? I mean, I am not saying that friends don't fight, they do, but not constantly. I was constantly getting into annoying fights with one girl I know so I stopped being friends with her. It sounds like there is an issue going on that nobody really seems to notice. Such as, are you saying something that the rest doesn't like? Are you people respecting eachother? Are you people changing into different people now and have no same interests? It is normal to stop friendships because of personality changes. I would suggest talking to them about what's really the matter, but try warning them first that this isn't a fight, that it's a conversation, and no one is wrong or right or getting into trouble. Good luck.
2006-08-03 09:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can't tell you to just dump them but maybe try not to fight so much. If not then they might be bad friends. To get rid of them, you can make a new friend that you enjoy being with and slowly get away from your former friends. Then they won't bother you any more.
2006-08-03 14:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by Tamtamy .C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm........dont choose one over the other. Listen to what they argue about. Understand the circumstance. Maybe you can make a "listen" group and talk to KK, HR n KS together. that might sort things out.
2006-08-03 14:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by thedumbone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's good to have all your friends get along. Try and find some similar interests between them, if any. There has to be something. If not, remain friends with them, and as long as you get along with all of them, just make seperate hang outs.
2006-08-03 14:22:16 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this honey, but if you and your friends are constantly fighting, then it's time to move on. Friends should not be fighting constantly. Don't get me wrong...I had a few fights with my friends but not all the time. Friends should be there to help each other and not hurt each other.
2006-08-03 14:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! U want know people are your friends until something major goes down I am not saying that their are not any friends out their u have to be careful who U hang with cause sometimes close friends can turn their back on u on any little thing.
2006-08-03 14:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by Fannie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should keep your friends, but you should see them less frequent. I think the reason you're all fighting is because you all have your own strong opinion and you all not even think about not protecting your opinion. Just try to keep calm when one of your friends tries to start a quarrel. Just remember you're better and you don't lower yourself to their level. They will see you eventually as superiour and will try to be as relaxed and open minded as you will be ;)
2006-08-03 14:15:39 · answer #7 · answered by MIckey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
silly fights or serious fights? if you all can't get along then you shouldn't be friends with them. maybe you can be friends with one or two of them if you don't fight with them as much.
2006-08-03 14:11:45 · answer #8 · answered by Niecy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be you should think abt slowly going apart with them and finding new friends you cannot really maintain good friendship if you cant even get along well with them
2006-08-03 14:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by manini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should dump them or explain to them how you are feeling and if they don't care dump them and if they do stay with them!
2006-08-03 14:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋