2006-08-03 06:55:33 · 14 answers · asked by beebegogo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
let it go....
let her die seing you with your husband....
die of being envious hahahaha
2006-08-11 04:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by darknight 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that it would probably irritate me at first. When you care deeply about someone it's only natural to feel threatened on a subconscious level when someone else seems to be showing interest. But... I think it would also serve as a reminder that my spouse is attractive to others and therefore I would feel a sense of pride in the fact that they were choosing to be with me.
I do have a jealous streak though... so I'm sure my initial feeling and reaction would be aggravation. :o) I think it has a lot to do with how secure you feel in yourself at the moment as well. Some people are just disrespectful. If she was being OBVIOUS about checking him out despite the fact that she knew you were there and that you saw her looking then that's just rude.
A sad fact is that A LOT of women find men in relationships even MORE attractive just simply because it's more of a challenge and they like to stir up trouble in order to make themselves feel more desireable. (i.e. "if I can get a married man to be with me or check me out when he's with his wife... than I MUST be hot!") It's about insecurity on their part, I think. They feel the need to prove something to themselves.
But, to answer your question "What would you do?" -- I probably wouldn't DO anything. I would feel whatever it is that I was feeling... but I don't think I'd say or do anything. I might mention to him later that someone was checking him out and that it made me a little upset and jealous. Be honest. Your husband might be flattered that you cared. Then again... if he's the type that LIKES to MAKE you jealous... I would just keep my feelings to myself.
2006-08-03 14:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would show off my marriage ring to make sure SHE SEES IT. Also, I would hold my husband's hand to show her that we are together. After that, I wouldnt not worrying abt this woman looking my husband. I will show her my greatest smiles and feel happy to know that the husband picks me, not her. So be sure u make it clear that u are with him. It will give her a clear sign .. It happened to me once. Becz theres a waiteress who likes my Fiance and she was talking so sweet to him. Thats where i saw them when i was on my way out to the Table from the bathroom. ( Powder moments-WINK) Anyway, I came over to our table and teasaed my Fiance that he got a new girlfreind. He laughed and said NO, Baby .. you are mine. I saw the waiteress looking at him like shes shocked that he has a woman on his side. I gave her a clear picture of a sweet kiss and smile alot while holding our hands to show her that we belong together. It works like a charm. the woman was very uncomfortable to serve us at our table. theres a new waiter who took over for her. In my mind, its about time that she gets the hint beca of my action. Then my fiance said oh what happened to my new girlfriend and now u have a new boyfriend. I smiled and said, i guess im too beautiful than ur new girlfreind with a sweet laugh while teasin him .. Funny thing is that he couldnt let go of my hands in front of the waiter( he was CUTE.. SHHH) I know he loves me and wouldnt go for any other girls .
So ,be creative than being cruel...
2006-08-03 14:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by sunnya4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I probably would not do anything. I think it is okay for people to look. Besides if another woman was looking at my husband, I would probably say something to my husband about it...as long as he never strayed...what's the harm in looking? It just means that other women find your man attractive, I think its a compliment...besides she'll be the one left standing there alone, not you.
2006-08-03 14:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by manderin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give her a look that says "If you dont stop doing that you'll be sorry". If she keeps it up I would probably leave the fair. I'm a lady so I wouldn't resort to anything physical. Its really not worth it.
2006-08-03 14:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with toyaj completely. Sometimes women get to catty about things like this. If you find your man attractive why can't anyone else? They are just looking.
2006-08-03 14:07:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, i think that it's cool that other women are looking. For one he is mine and that's the end just imagine what would I do when they stop looking...Its just a physical attraction nothing more..
2006-08-03 14:01:47 · answer #7 · answered by Toya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would smile a lot and have fun.
And, laugh at them if they actually thought they had a chance.
2006-08-03 14:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by limendoz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go ask her' are you ok? do we know u? ' then if she said ' no'. ask ger' why then heel you keep looking at mu husband?' she may say' yes.' then you ask your husband ' why she knows you? and how?'
2006-08-11 11:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by Tomorrowalwaysbetter! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on my mood... might ignore it or I might go up and ask her what in the heck she's looking at.... and nicely suggest she take her attention elsewhere.
2006-08-03 14:00:04 · answer #10 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start looking at her husband!
2006-08-11 11:16:28 · answer #11 · answered by Umpalumpa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋