My boyfriend & I got into a disagreement over braidin hair. I've braided hair 4 quite some time, but I've also been doin it b4 I've been N a relationship. Ive been N relationships w/ guys & still braided other guys hair. I braid random guys, ex boyfriends, friends, & family's hair. I get $$ & some times not. Well, I get N2 a relationship w/ a male who has a problem w/ doin hair, & thats another money maker 4 me. I understand the past is the past, but if I am braidin my ex's hair where's there a problem? He isn't sittin between my legs, & my private isn't on his back or near his face. Well my boyfriend feels I should stop braidin hair all together. I know 4 a fact Im not, but y stop braiding hair bc Im w/ a new partner? Y's braiding any1 hair a problem? Sholdn't I b trusted? He said he trusts me, but he just doesn't like that. He doesn't even want me 2 be friends w/ some of my ex's. 1 of my ex's I are real close & he has a daughter & girlfriend (basically married) & were best buds.
2006-08-03 06:51:31 · 5 answers · asked by BitterSweet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WELL,U LET HIM TELL U WHAT TO DO NOW HE WILL ALL WAYS TELL U WHAT TO DO ,WHAT TO WEAR ECT. AND THE THANG HE IS TELLING, U DAT HE TRUST U ,DATS BS.CAUSE IF HE DID HE WOULD NOT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH WHAT U R DOING. U R MAKEING MONEY SO DAT SOUNDS LIKE U R A INDEPENDENT PERSON ,AND DAT MAKES SOME GUYS INSURCURE. SO I WOULD TELL HIM U LOVE ME AND U WANT TO BE WITH ME THEN U SHOULD SUPORT ME IN EVERYTHING I DO. WHEN U TELL HIM DAT U WILL KNOW BY HIS REACTION HOW HE REALLY FEELS ABOUT U. HOPE IT WORKS OUT FOR U HUN. BEST WISHES TO U!
2006-08-03 07:12:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, he can say that he trusts you. but he doesn't live up to his word. your bf has a minor insecurity problem. you can't change him just live up to your part. you're not doing anything wrong. ask him to come along if he wants, but all you have for him is the word "trust" and he has to accept that, other wise it's his problem.
2006-08-03 14:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE'S JEALOUS, AND IF THATS THE CASE IT WILL ALWAYS BE AN ISSUE WITH HIM CONTINUOUSLY.. IS THIS WHAT YOU WANT. HE SOUNDS VERY INSECURE. MAKE SURE THIS IS THE KIND OF GUY YOU WANT HONEY, OTHERWISE YOU WILL BE PUTTING UP A DEFENSE ALL THE TIME. RE-THINK THIS OK.. I WISH YOU LUCK..:D
2006-08-03 13:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by Hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE NEW GUY SOUNDS LIKE HE WANTS TO CONTROL YOU. GET RID OF HIM, NOT YOUR HOBBY/JOB.
2006-08-03 13:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shoot him!
i do not change for no one. you love me live by it you don't get moving pal!
2006-08-03 13:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by shi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋