Let me start out by saying that I am not gay. I have been dating girls since I was in grade six and have screwed roughly a hundred women since. I have only reached first base with guys, but that is probably going to change this weekend.
I met this guy through his younger sister who had a "friends with benefits" deal with me. I immediately found him attractive when I first saw him in his house. He's tall, blonde, in great shape, has amazing hair, and looked incredibly sexy in his trucker hat. I just had to introduce myself to him. We then became friends, then more than friends, and then we made out one night and it was quite possibly the most intimate kiss I have ever received (and I have kissed A LOT in my lifetime). This weekend we are going camping together and the probability of us getting it on is high.
Although I am sexually experienced, I have never done it with another guy before. We're probably going to do it a few times, with both of us in the gibing and receiving positions
2006-08-03 06:26:14 · 16 answers · asked by Bedroom Celebrity 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
any advice tips or whatever are appreciated. I really want to turn him on and I am already turned on myself.
2006-08-03 06:26:52 · update #1
I am leaving in a few hours. In the meantime I will put this question up for voting.
2006-08-05 01:49:59 · update #2
If you are going to do oral on him - remember - no teeth. Put your lips over your teeth as you work it.
Have plenty of condoms and lube. I like eros pur lube. If you are going to do anal. Or get the stuff called "wet".
Anal may be a bit unpleasant the first time or maybe even the first few. But your passage will be adapt and then it is a lot better!
Try practicing with fingers first. First one, then more. Maybe go to a few larger tihings.
Here a few tips
1) Get an enema before hand. You can use female douche or a water bottle. You don't have to do this - but trust me - it is good at cleaning up everything out.
2) Never be penetrated with out a condom on!
3) Use plenty of lubricant.
4) It might be a good idea to start practicing stretching your passage now. Wash your hands. Start with some fingers. Then work up to bigger and bigger things. Go slow.
5) Anal sex is great - but the *** is not a vagina. You need to enter it more patiently. Have him put it in you slowly at first. When it is fully in just have him stay still for a bit. Give your passage time to expand. Then let him start pounding a way. First time or two might be painful. Grin and bear it. It will get better - I promise.
6) It may or may not be a good idea to start off with someone with a medium penis. - But trust me - soon enough you'll be able to take just about any size.
7) Practice squeezing your ***. Some guys like you to squeeze down on it for them.
2006-08-03 06:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by Think.for.your.self 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Most people find that they have to "practice" on themselves with a dildo before they can enjoy being the "bottom" during anal sex. Since you're apparently going to be with this guy this coming weekend, that doesn't give you much time to get accustomed to being on the receiving end of anal sex. It's all about learning to relax those sphincter muscles ... and it takes a little getting used to; but the more you practice, the easier it becomes. Also, be sure to use PLENTY of lube. No need to spend $25 on a bottle of lube. Good ole KY-jelly works fine; just use plenty of it. Most people find that some sort of enema before sex is a good idea .. you don't want to be embarrassed to have the guy on top pull out of you and find big globs of you-know-what on his dickie-doo. By all means you should both wear condoms if performing anal sex. But remember, there are many other very satisfying sexual activities that two guys can do together and most of them carry a low risk of transmitting HIV.
2006-08-03 13:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jimmy Blonde Tips 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he done this before? On the receiving end, take it very slowly and gently. It hurts *a lot* at first, even with plenty of lubricant, but the pain will subside and then you'll really have some fun. There is nothing like it. Be safe Evan :)
2006-08-03 15:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by Bunny*Run 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone assumes because you are in a homosexual relationship there has to be a reciever. Not true. Not every person you have an experience with is the same. Just like the kiss thing. Just let it happen naturally. If the urge for @nal sex is there then go for it, but I have had many experiences without it and those have been the guys I am still in contact with. (for years.)
2006-08-03 13:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by doldemite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say just go as far as you are comfortable. Don't be forced into something that your not ready to do or you may regret it. You can fool around and not have anal.
If you do decide to go all the way. I won't lie. It is going to hurt alot at first. RELAX! and remeber
Sex is like a chinese dinner.. its not over until you both get your cookies.
2006-08-03 14:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by college student 1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. be ready for lots of pain and pleasure. Make sure you bring condoms and a lubricant that isn't oil based. Not really many tips I could give, just take it slow at first untill you're ready for everything.
2006-08-03 13:55:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you do an enema both of you and also play it safe. Condoms every time. I am not personally into anal because of the risk of STD's you are 700% more likely to get an STD from anal sex than any other form of penatrative sexual activity.
2006-08-03 13:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, man that's hot. I'm sure that you'll know what to do when the time comes. Just be safe and go easy. Have fun.
2006-08-03 13:49:18 · answer #8 · answered by Cymalon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it happens you will know what to do. Be yourself. and enjoy the experience. Good Luck. Happy 4 u. :)
2006-08-03 13:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by nicetee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take plenty of photos and post them later.
2006-08-03 13:41:29 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋