what to think? what to do? what to say?

Question

hey my name is cambria. i'm 17 and i need some good advice. um.... i'm in a singing group we sing r&b. its 3 of us all girls. and i'm the oldest. well you know how girls can't get along to good. well i feel like an outcast. i feel left out because the fact the other two girls are so close. so it be cat fights here and there. um... our manager said he doesn't wanna WORK WITH US ANYMORE . but one of the girls in the group his daughter and his daughter close friend is the other girl in the group. saturday or soon where suppose to be having a meeting. i really wanna be in this group even though i feel left out i still see a future for us no matter what. how can i hide my feelings and make the manager believe that i really wanna be in the group and how can i let him give me another chance. i really wanna be in this group and im scared that i wont. what to do

Answer 1

Hi, maybe you should try talking to your manager about this, tell him the truth (that you want to be part of the group) on the other hand, don't mind if the other girls are closer, give them the chance to know you better, try talking to them once in a while (one on one) so you can all find some common ground... they might still be closer friends, but by connecting with them on a more personal level, little by little they will include you. Don't worry, sometimes these things take time and patience, but in the end it will be worth it. Besides, in a group (where you have to practucally live with each other for long periods of time) its easier to get along if you know each other well.
good luck!