we went 2 a nice place with fellow friends 1 day.he gave me his hand so tht i can walk properly in tht cave like place where there was water till our knees. i never talked 2 him more than daily "hi, how r u, bye", he was always a brilliant student in class & i was average. tht was also a reason i cudnt talk more wit him. but i used to wish him on his birthday every year. he used to charmingly accept my wishes & talked politely. he to dint showed much interest in me. today im happy wit my bf. im engaged to my 2 year old bf. he is my everything. i dont expect anything from my 1st crush & i never imaginated abt him as a lover bt i never forget to wish him on his birthday. i feel i will never forget & i want him to know tht i remember his bday. dont know y! wiil this feeling grow into love 4 him? will this change me & make me away from my bf? where am i wrong? what shud i do? shud i forget him & never contact him? pls dont ans me tht i shud change my spellings or grammar.im in real mess ok
2006-08-03 06:06:55 · 4 answers · asked by angelic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hey im not saying shud i forget my bf. im saying shud i forget abt my 1st crush (his name is ashwin) and stop contacting him. i was 13 when i had a crush on him. he was a friend. one of our group. we used to talk normally,go out wit friends together etc. i never confessed my feelings to him tht time. im sure i dont love him.im sure. im just puzzled y am i thinking abt him then.
2006-08-03 06:30:42 · update #1
It's ok to wish him happy birthday! It's a nice and thoughtful thing to do for a friend :o) You should stay with your boyfriend, though, because this other guy probably only likes you as a friend... but if you feel like you need to know if he ever liked you in that way then ask him! :o)
2006-08-03 06:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by snpdrgon84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are thinking about leaving your boyfriend of two years who you are engaged to just because a guy held your hand when you were walking into a cave? it sounds like you are reading too much into it. and besides that, you don't really know much about your crush except for when his birthday is and that he was a brilliant student. i don't think your feelings will grow into love. stick with your boyfriend
2006-08-03 13:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by Niecy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he truly is "brilliant" as you said...you really should just forget him. You are clearly NOT brilliant...as evidenced by that painful paragraph I attempted to read. Forget him, a smart man wouldn't want such a dumb woman.
2006-08-03 13:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are engaged, give your old crush up! Who knows if it will work out and then you will have dumped the one for nothing
2006-08-03 13:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋