If you are having a problem (like not being able to retract your foreskin), then go to a urologist and let him advise you. Maybe he can do a simple procedure which will release the skin WITHOUT circumcision.
I got "cut" 5 years ago. To be honest, the operation did not hurt at all, even when I woke up. I also never had one day’s pain. The wound was healed in 2 weeks, and all during that time, all I had was this ring of stitches around my d*ck which were sensitive, but never painful.
Still, I don’t think you must do it.
For sex without a condom, circumcision is OK. It reduces a lot of feeling, and it feels a bit numb. That can be quite a nice feeling, and you can go on for a few minutes longer than if you were NOT circumcised. If (a) you are from a family who are going to make you marry as soon as posssible, (b) if they expect you to STAY married for the rest of your life, and (c) if you are happy to be tied to marriage partners, then, maybe getting chopped is OK.
But, if you are someone who has the chance of having your own life, and having sex with other partners (male or female) who want you to use a condom, then definitely don’t get cut.
The main reason I am sorry I got cut is because using a condom is now impossible. If I wear one, I feel NOTHING: no sense of penetration, no sense of contact, no sense of warmth, no sense of pressure. And these are all VITAL to male ejaculation and orgasm.
I never had this problem when I was uncircumcised. I actually used to enjoy using a condom to reduce my sensitivity and to have a good time whenever I felt like it with whomever was around.
But now that is absolutely impossible. I HAVE to have unprotected sex (without a condom) because otherwise, I can’t even feel myself going in. I have to look down to check to see if I am in. It feels like not having a dick at all – and I just can’t reach orgasm, which drives me CRAZY.
But, having unprotected sex these days is really dangerous. So, it’s a question of (a) not using a condom, and exposing yourself to AIDS, or (b) using a condom, and not being able to “come”.
If you’re still young, maybe it won’t affect you as much as it affected me. But the longer you wait, the longer it takes for the nerve-endings to grow back.
I really think you should keep your dick the way it was when you were born. There is absolutely NO reason (except for a non-retracting foreskin, "cool looks", your religion, or prevailing custom) to get your dick docked.
2006-08-04 00:44:28
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answered by Shylock 2
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Why on earth would you want to have this done? Does it hurt? Of course! The penis has more nerve endings than any other area of the human body. The only difference in having it done as an adult instead of a child is that the adult can make the informed decision, plus an adult is given anesthesia (local or general) and some great pain meds afterward. Infants don't receive either. My brother in law is from Europe. He was circumcised when he came to the US back in the early 80's. He said it was the most horrible thing he'd ever endured. Because of that, they did not circ either of their sons. I'm expecting a baby and if it's a boy, we won't circ either. He can make that choice when he's an adult.
The hygeine thing is a myth. If a boy or adult can brush their teeth or wash their ears, they can pull back a foreskin and wash it. It takes all of 5 seconds, the same time it takes a woman to wash her labia.
I have no idea what it feels like and you wont either until after it's done. I've heard and read that some people think it feels worse/less sensitive and others say it feels the same. I've never heard anybody say it feels better, although maybe someone out there would say that.
Seriously, I wouldn't recommend it for cosmetic reasons. God & nature designed you the way you were meant to be. If you really think you need to be circ'd as an adult, go see a urologist and ask him/her all these questions. If it really is medically necessary they will give you good pain meds to help you recover.
Good luck!
2006-08-03 22:40:54
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answered by Girl named Sue 4
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Ok im 16 i got circumcised and i dont remember anything this is probably because i got it when i was a infant but im sure it will hurt but if you get put to sleep or on an extremly stong med. you'll be fine i dont even think that the aftermath such as healing would hurt to bad and you'll be alot happier good luck man hope everything goes well
2006-08-03 13:15:14
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answered by Conspiracy11 1
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It'll probably hurt while it's healing, but it shouldn't once it's healed unless you chose to get cut really tight.
But it will definitely feel different. Probably not better nor significantly worse, just different from what I hear. For some people that difference doesn't feel good, and for others it feels better. Purely antomically and physiologically, it shouldn't feel as good because many nerves are being removed. The question is then, how does one handle what's left?
2006-08-03 17:55:11
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answered by trebla_5 6
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Ok I'm not a guy but my husband had to have his re-done when he was 3 years old and he said that he can still remember the pain and that it HURT like hell.
Hope that helps answere your question a little anyway.
2006-08-03 13:00:23
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answered by heatherjaxon 1
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The only "hurting" time is the healing. Otherwise, nothing.
2006-08-03 13:07:16
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answered by Morphious 4
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No idea about the pain ( as far as I know & I've heard, it doesn't hurt), but after being heal up, it'll look great, really perfect.
2006-08-03 12:59:50
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answered by Neeku 5
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my husband had it done a few years ago and he was in his early 20s, it hurt him like hell after all the hospital pain relief wore off and until the stitches came out..but after that it was lovely and looks very nice now lol!!!
2006-08-04 07:45:24
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answered by ickleweddwagon 1
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my man says it hurt after but its goes after 2 weeks
2006-08-03 13:24:22
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answered by munchie 6
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will you tell me what is it feel like when u done that, i never did that, but, the technology today use laser scalpel, no pain as it is said.
2006-08-03 13:11:30
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answered by Anonymous
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