The picture under his bed was his ex girfriend. What do you think he was doing with it? He said it was in that shoe box always. Well we were living together for a year and why would it had been there.
2006-08-03 05:50:00 · 12 answers · asked by Bella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe he had forgotten it had been there. Tell him you're uncomfortable with the pictures. If he has any sense, he will throw it away. If he doesn't want to throw it away, then you really need to ask yourself hard questions on this guy.
2006-08-03 05:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by acceb 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the picture was framed, and he looked at it every day - that would be a problem. Most guys aren't that great at housekeeping and if his last relationship didn't end bitterly, he didn't feel the need to get rid of it and probably just forgot about it
I wouldn 't make too much of it - people need to accept that their partners had relationships before the one they are in right now and not insist on having the other person burn items that belonged to their former partners.
2006-08-03 05:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by Mother Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ex- girlfriends are memories. They're apart of our lives. Keeping a picture of an ex, there's nothing wrong with that, especially if you cared for them. His ex will always be a part of him, and it'll always be, even when he's a married man.
2006-08-03 05:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by Omar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you have a box of old memories somewhere? Guys like to keep things around to. He probably hasn't looked in that box in a long time, he just keeps it around for memories sake. I have pictures of my ex in my house. And my bf has pictures of his ex's too. They are all put away, it's not like we keep them on the wall or anything, but still, my point is. It's okay to keep old memories, he is with you now, not her. He has chosen to be with you he probably just likes keeping some of his memories.
2006-08-03 06:02:23 · answer #4 · answered by collegebusygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-28 00:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complicated people will always see a stain in a white clothe.Even machines worry us when they are poorly handled.Don't you think he might have forgotten to throw it away.Make thousand of new friends you will not automatically forget old ones.
2006-08-03 06:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by patrick w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi did it look like it had been hiden there when it was noticed that you were walking into the room or like he says it was there accidentally.It natural to be concerned but don't be overconcerned But keep your eyes open incase it is like he is withdrawn towards his ex girlfriend.
2006-08-03 06:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by Curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he really did have it in the shoebox and he forgot about it? It sounds as though he has already answered your question. The question you should be asking yourself is why are you so insecure in this relationship and why don't you believe what he tells you?
2006-08-03 05:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, it means that he still has feeling for his ex. you want to confront him about it. why is he keeping her pictures still. if he is committed to you, then he should throw all that away. otherwise you'll feel like you're just a second choice.
2006-08-03 05:55:23 · answer #9 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he forgot about having it there or he still isnt completely over her but dosent want you to know.
2006-08-03 05:54:19 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋