i am 14 and had sex and the condom broke and i am scared i dont want to get pregnant but the condom broke and there was c** in the condom and he cam again do u think i am pregnant or not iam so scared
2006-08-03 05:41:33 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
it says in my name so i just put
2006-08-03 05:46:59 · update #1
i got my first period at 11
2006-08-03 05:47:52 · update #2
the condom broke from friction
2006-08-03 05:55:39 · update #3
i think that yester day i was most fertile
2006-08-03 05:59:06 · update #4
neither of us have stds so i dont think i have any
2006-08-03 06:50:06 · update #5
Wow some people are harsh....but anyway look honey I do agree that you should have waited until you got a little older to have sex. Because things like this does happen. This is something that you need to discuss with you parents they need to know so they can get you the proper care if you are pregnant. Just wait to have sex especially at your age, because if so happens you are pregnant that pretty much ties up the rest of you teen years.
Hope everything works out for you!!!
2006-08-03 05:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by CPSweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very possible, but not probable, depending on where you're at in your cycle. If you have a regular period and it's been two weeks since you got your period, then I would say you should worry. Wait and see if you get your period is really the only thing you can do. Also, you should be worried about more than pregnancy. Even if the boy was 14 as well, there are alot of diseases out there and if he likes to sleep around he could have given you one. Since you are having sex, you should be visiting a doctor regularly to make sure everything is ok, even if your parents don't allow you to go on birth control. Taking care of your body is extremely important. Good Luck
2006-08-03 05:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by experiencedmotherof4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your chances of becoming pregnant is highly possible if:
1. It has been about 14 days since your last period.
2. You are not on any birth control method.
The condom breaking is not a good thing. This exposed you to the sperm, and any STD's the guy may have, (& vise-versa). You should always have a back-up method. You, yourself need to be taking a birth control method such as the pill, foam, spermacidal jelly, etc, to go along with the condom, as they do tend to break.
I suggest that you wait to see if your period starts on time. If you can, talk to one or both of your parents about it. They may be more understanding if you let them know now, rather than waiting to find out several months from now if you are pregnant. Let them know that he did use a condom, but it broke. And that you are scared of being pregnant.
You folks won't like the idea of you having sex, but they will be relieved to hear you were trying to have protected sex. If you are pregnant, they need to know, so that you can get good prenatal care. There are several options out there for pregnant teens. I do not condon abortion, but I do approve of adoption. So I won't lecture you on Pro-life issues.
At your age, you still need to be under a parental or legal gaurdianship care. Minors find it very hard to do daily living chores, without their parents signature.
My daughter is 15 years old & 29 weeks (7 months, 1 week) pregnant from a broke condom. She can't even pick her prenatal vitamins up from the pharmacy without my signing for it! The new Privacy Laws are the reason for this.
I pray that you are not pregnant, But try talking with you parents about it, or go to a free clinic, talk to another TRUSTED adult, school counselor.
My best of luck to you.
2006-08-03 06:14:03 · answer #3 · answered by Regina R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to scare you but there is a strong possibility you could be. That's why it is best not to have sex until you are married. See what you worryin about right now. At the age of 14, you shouldn't be worried with sex and pregnance. You should be some where being silly and having fun Not having sex. I hope that you are not pregnant for your sake. If you turn out to be late for your period, I would suggest that you get a pregancy test asap!!! Good Luck.
2006-08-03 05:50:19 · answer #4 · answered by jetta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very likely that you could be. Women have gotten pregnant under less inundating circumstances. Now is the time to make plans and preparation for what you will do next if you are indeed pregnant. This is not the time to be scared. This is the time to go to your parents and tell them what happened and you need to start preparing for what comes next. The sooner you deal with this the better off you will be. The longer you drag this out the tougher it will be.
If you manage to escape this one, I would reccommend that you abstain from having sex until you make enough money to live on your own and to raise a child yourself. Until then if you do not want to have a baby, stop having sex.
2006-08-03 05:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to get checked out by your doctor which is a hard thing to do considering your age. But they wont refuse you for the test and if you have any other questions ask the doctor about methods that can help you. Since you are having sex make sure that you get yourself on some kind of birth control method also
2006-08-03 05:47:18 · answer #6 · answered by d_sbabymomma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're pathetic. Only 14, but couldn't wait to have sex. I feel bad for the baby if you are pregnant. Next time think a little first. Call a doctor, there is a day after drug that can help.
2006-08-03 05:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely possible. I don't suggest you having sex again anytime soon (too young), but if you do, check the date on the condom. I am 38 and have never had a condom break.
2006-08-03 05:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by emwell2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my but yes it is totally possible ....i sure hope you are not though cause you are to young and not responsible enough to have a child...i do not know what to say to you about this..lets just pray your not, but you will know within the next month or two...so sorry for you that this happened...but that is the chance you took when you had sex with this boy....good luck though and i hope you are not pregnant..you have every reason to be scared...i hope the days go easy on you until you find out...
2006-08-03 05:49:05 · answer #9 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a great chance that you could become pregant. What you need to do is get yourself to your local health unit, your doctor or your local emergency room. You can do this withour a parent with you and they do have to keep quiet and not tell your parents! Get there and tell them what has happened. They can give you something to ensure that you do not become pregant. However, time is of essence - you need to do this quickly. If you have a good, open relationship with your mom, dad or any other adult, I suggest that you talk to them; otherwise, seek help!
2006-08-03 07:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋