2006-08-03 05:12:08 · 104 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just to give you a beter insight, the reason he hit me was because I spent a lot of money on a handbag and he punched me in the stomach he says he is really sorry and will never do it again.
2006-08-03 05:49:09 · update #1
Well I've been reading some of the answers to this question and I have to say most people are sensible but what the feck was that all about, did you deserve it, where did he hit you what???are u insane! Never stay with a violent man it takes one punch in the head and you can be dead, it hardly ever stops at one smack,get out of there girl, here send me an email, I'll put you in touch with some contacts, BE STRONG, GET OUT NOW.
2006-08-03 05:31:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
i would like to say no but to be honest it would have to depend on where he hit me, was it a closed or open fist, why he hit me (not to say that there should be a reason) and if he truly was apologetic.. oh and i'd need to know if he hit other women as well..
i've never been hit by a guy so i don't know.. i do wanna say that u shouldn't tolerate any man that hits u even if it was just once.. cause if he hit u once it'll probably happen again.. and can u imaging if u were hit once by every guy u've ever dated??? i'd probably have to say no, i'd leave him for good.. even if he does apologizes.. ur not a punching bag and u can't change him.. and he has no right to be raising his hand to u either...
but if u decide to stay and he does it again leave his ***, get a restraining order and pick something up and bash his head in....
2006-08-03 05:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend a lot on what the circumstances were. I did stay with a b/f that hit me, and he continued to keep hitting me for two years. By the time I did leave, I was prego and he stalked me for years. I still get letters from him every now and then, but he's in prison now so I don't worry to much.
However, my husband now also hit me one time while we were dating. That was 4 years ago and it has not happened again. I definitely instigated him to the point of hitting me. I have no doubt in my mind that he'll never do it again.
But, if your b/f gets really angry easily, tries to control you in any way then I would say you absolutely need to leave him now! Before you get into a situation you can't get out of.
2006-08-03 05:21:50 · answer #3 · answered by Peace Lovin Hippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, definitly not........ you need to get out while the getting is good, and if he comes around with 'I'm sorries' and some kind of present and he is criing and crap like that........ slam the door and I mean slam it hard!!!!! Don't let him in, where ever you are. If they hit once, they will hit again and again. You are worth more than that and you deserve better treatment then that...... Love yourself, because he doesn't and will never know how to love you or anyone else, I bet his dad hit his mom and he thinks thats ok, Please, get away before you are really hurt.
2006-08-03 05:18:30 · answer #4 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO. the fact is, if he did it once most likely he WILL do it again, not to mention it's for a purse....A PURSE....no one deserve to be punch for buying a purse no matter how expensive it was. Think about it, what will he do to you if you did something more EXTREME...oh gees, something that 's more extreme than buying a purse....Ok don't say that I'm not giving him the benefit of the doubt (not that he deserve it anyways); if he is TRULY SORRY show him all the answers you are receiving from the Yahoo users; let him KNOW that he had made an mistake....if we are all saying the SAME thing about him, I'm very confidence to say that the problem is on him.
2006-08-03 12:56:17 · answer #5 · answered by Ken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly i would stay with him i would leave him alone for awhile but he would come back to me and say hes sorry and i would forgive him for what he did because i know he's really sorry and didn't mean to do it.I love him and don't want any body else but him and i would take a couple of hits if he did and still be with him.But if i didnt want to be with him and if i didn't love him then i would hit him back leave him and get other people to chop off the hand he hit me with
2006-08-03 05:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once your boyfriend hit you and it will be on going.. leave once, Boyfriend, brother, husband, father, men, knows better not to hit women and children. Period...I been abused by dad mom my life was hard and hell. I change my life to be best than my family. and I never once my lifetime hit any women or children even men. for Men I walked way. for wife and my kids no way. I am not goingto be like my family. I want my family know I am the man that protect my family and no one ever hit my own family. Will face me big time.
All of them knows that, I will destroy them Don't care if I lose or win. show that I am man enough to protect my family. If I lose my family still love me why? show my side that my family will not go through what I been going through and I want them to hurt me not them.
If my daughter comes home told me that her boyfriend hits her.. I will be looking for him and take to his parents and tell them to train or teach your son how to respect women. if they said why? I tell them because no men boy father husband brother should ever hit women and children. If you don't fix the plm i will call police and if police not going to do anything then It will be in my hand. Let you know, That why I will have my daughter take Boxing class or Kung Ku class.
I have a son and I will teach him how to respect women. but no respect for men...
Pls., if hit once by boyfriend, husband, brother, father, men, just leave now. Once hit is always too many hits. show them your cold heart and show them it done don't care don't love you and don't even care what happen to you. I don't deserve to get hit like that. It hurts and that is D.V. I learn what if feels like and see father did to my mom and boyfriend did to my sister. oh god. I learn so much that I will never ever be like them.
I thank god for that changes I did and I kept that promise and will be with me for long time and my Son and Daughter will be going the right path to do the right way and not the wrong way.
Hope that answers your questions.
2006-08-03 05:23:13 · answer #7 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone in their right mind is going to tell you to leave.. and they are right but first you have to come to the same conclusion. No woman deserves a man beating her. No matter how mad he is...mental abuse hurts as much as physical abuse. i wouldnt doubt he's hurt you mentally also. You need a man thats going to respect you in every single way. Once the respect and trust is missing in the relationship theres nothing left. A man can can say he loves you and say he's sorry but love is not all we need to be happy. To feel safe with the man you love means everything but if youre not even safe around him...then what does that tell you ?
2006-08-03 05:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can leg press about 450 so if my BF hit me I'd just kick him and then I'd know he would never do it again. If that's not an option...give him one more chance. Everyone deserves a second chance but no one deserves a third. Good luck!
2016-03-16 12:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by Barbara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO,cause if he did it once he will do it again,and just think this time it was over a purse,next it could be over a utility bill,or just anything else,he wants you to problem ask his permission,that is where the controlling part come in ,take a good look ,before you leap.a leopard does not change his spots.
2006-08-04 01:40:06 · answer #10 · answered by timmsr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋