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2006-08-03 04:56:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style Other - Beauty & Style

19 answers

Yes

2006-08-03 05:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Alright! 2 · 0 1

This is a complex question. Most men themselves do not know the answer. The first attraction is very primal. It is looks. The delight of the eye is loves beginning. This happens in less than 1 minute. If it is mutual and the girl provides interested eye contact to encourage the man, all the body chemicals come into play to bring forth an emotion. Remember no words were spoken, so personality doesn't come into play yet.

Desire has arisen, man does not look for love but when she speaks and shows a glimpse of her soul and it is comfortable place for him. love happens.

As to your question, yes looks are paramount. Sometimes when too much sexual looks are up front, he still wants her but not for love. The package is not complete ( not comfortable) There needs to be enough of your best attributes showing to draw the interest.

Example a tongue ring is a turn on, but a love off.

I don't want to write a book, but we all act on urges we can't explain . How many times has a friend said," what do you see in him" and you answer , " I don't know, I just do " point and case.

Good hunting

2006-08-03 12:43:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0 0

Many things. Perhaps the initial attraction is physical. The man might love long legs, or a sexy backside, or he might be a boob man, or even go for the hair. Some go for smiles and eyes; others go for lips. So he decides to strike up a conversation which reveals more to him - is she clever? Does she have a sense of humour? Is she an Ice Queen (usually a turn-off, but not always), is she genuine or after him for his money? Or because he is famous? Does she remind him of his mum? (Sometimes a turn-on, sometimes not!) Sometimes opposites attract, and sometimes similarities do. For example, a man with a sense of humour would want the woman to not only appreciate it, but to have one herself. A clever man would want a clever girl (but no man wants a girl who is cleverer than him, for some reason!) On the other hand, a man who cooks well might prefer a girlfriend who can't cook.
Also they have to have some interests or hobbies in common. And you can't spend all your time having sex, so someone who is easy to talk to and a good listener and pays attention to him is always a bonus.

2006-08-03 12:13:48 · answer #3 · answered by kiteeze 5 · 0 0

The biggest thing i look for is someone who can hold a conversation. I've been with some stunning girls who had 3 words in their vocabulary and there's nothing more annoying! So long as you can be funny, laugh and have an opinion on things then thats the main thing. Looks etc are a nice bonus but not essential

2006-08-03 12:01:12 · answer #4 · answered by The Shadow 3 · 0 0

Yes its looks. It is also how well they fit into their ideal girl. There are two categories with guys. Girls they will have just sex with and girls they are willing to be in a relationahip with and commit. To be in a committed relationship with a guy requires looks, how you treat them, how you can confort them, responsibility and a whole bunch of others. It depends what they are looking for, just sex or something more.

2006-08-03 12:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by jai 1 · 0 0

The opposite of a man is the beauty of a women.
As long as you dont have big chin big nose or a hairy face then most chicks are beautiful to some one.

2006-08-03 12:01:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The most important thing is the personality,
don't judge the book by the cover!!!

2006-08-03 12:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by Patrick R 2 · 0 0

i've heard it's like balancing a scale

she's fat -1
she can cook +1
she likes football +1
she can't dance -1

it all depends on what he likes-some would rather have a good looking woman who hated football-every man has different priorities

2006-08-03 12:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by jodi_mailbox 4 · 0 0

men look in women if they have a good figure if there hot and if they are easy y cant they look more than that?

2006-08-03 12:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by Natalia G 1 · 0 0

first of all they go for looks but if her personality is crap then they dont want to know her. but then thats if they really want her for the long term, but if its for sex only, men have no choice,well most of them

2006-08-03 12:08:56 · answer #10 · answered by jennifer p 2 · 0 0

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