ok. my boyfriend cheated on me !! with a fat girl whom is not very attractive which makes it worse.(if she was pretty id have some understanding) anyways took the yatch home from the club yada yada yada, well im bipolar and when i found out i was by myself at home , and i went into a manic phase and started punching holes in the walls EVERYWHERE in my MOMS house. well he came over bc we love each other(supposably) and he tried to touch me and i punched him in the face. should i feel bad???? is that wrong??? for some reason i dont feel bad and i think it was totally deserved. but abusive relashonships are not right and i tend to throw fists alot so it might be jsut me. i just want to know if it was right or if i should feel bad about hitting him after he did that to me. by the way( he didint just kiss her, he full out took the yatch home and had sex with her in MY bed) while i was at home sleeping bc i let him have "boys night out". plz someone set my councince at rest
2006-08-03 04:51:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2006-08-03 04:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plain and Simple move on. The game is over. Love is something you can't buy, either its there or not. He did it to you once and he will do it to you again. Remember the First time is always the hardest, after that its down Hill all the way. You can find someone else out there in the world of Man, just have some confidence in yourself and let the cards play themselves out! Have a great day and thanks for asking. Aloha from Hawaii
2006-08-03 04:58:59 · answer #2 · answered by rechsteiner1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, violence isn't usually the answer. But given your condition, I wouldn't expect anything else. Are you on medication? If not, you need to be.
As far as this other thing, scrape this pile of trouble from the bottom of your shoe. Just because you have a disease doesn't mean you should be treated with disrespect. Let your heart heal. Be more selective next time.
2006-08-03 04:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON"T EVER PUT YOUR HANDS ON ANYONE!!! You could have gotten in more trouble than it would have been worth,over a fat chick.You did however slide out of this one because he knows he IS WRONG.At least by getting a fat girl you know he could'nt ever get serious about her.I'm saying he was just wanting one thing and he got it.Shame on him,and remember sweetie,"Once A Cheat Always A Cheat"
2006-08-03 05:17:29 · answer #4 · answered by sandy v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad. Further more, you should ditch him. He doesn't love you if he did something like that. And even more, he doesn't respect you if it was in your bed! Punch him again for me! The only thing you should feel bad about is punching the holes in the walls in your moms house. Kick his *** out of your life. You deserve better!
2006-08-03 04:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you should probably feel bad that you punched him, that was just wrong. however, you should have the right to be mad that he cheated on you. you need to decide if you want to stay with a cheat and a liar, with bad judgement, by the way.
as far as being bipolar goes, are you on medication, if not seeing a doctor for your condition is highly recommended.
2006-08-03 05:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by vebyllucs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl are you on any psychotropic medication? That type of anger in inexcusable. If you cheated on him would it be ok for him to punch you? No. There are not double standards here. If it would be wrong for him it is wrong for you! There is never a good excuse for violence. I strongly suggest ending this relationship. He is not serious about you hence his need to put his penis in other girls. Move on. This relationship will end badly!
2006-08-03 04:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hitting is never the answer. You have every right to feel hurt and betrayed but 2 wrongs do not make a right. Just dump him. If he loved you, he never would have cheated.
2006-08-03 04:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u shouldnt feel bad some guys only want sex and u didnt deserve to be treated like that u should of thrown a fist at her to i got beat alot and didnt do nothing so he basicly wants u to feel bad
2006-08-03 11:07:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you punched the pig,big deal.Tell him to go back to the fat girl and you find someone else!
2006-08-03 08:46:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He deserved it, but you really should not hit anyone.So since you did, and its over don't feel bad.
2006-08-03 08:26:45 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋