I've been seeing guys for some time, I don't know about him. He did say to me one day that he'd go out with me, but he was very very drunk.
2006-08-03 04:44:56 · 51 answers · asked by dodge21000 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Didn't think there were so many arseholes in the world, but you certainly found them with this question!
A message for them - It happens, get a life!
2006-08-04 04:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by MC65 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't even think about it !! This guy is just being friendly, if you try anything you are going to lose a friend. He may have an idea what you are like but it doesn't mean he's interested in that way.
My brother is a straight man, and he would go to the cinema with you even if he knew you dated guys, but it would be because he liked your personality not because he fancied you. If you approached him, he'd probably knock you out. So take heed.
I would love to say something about you being married and seeing guys but your question is nothing to do with that.
2006-08-08 09:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you married? Why are you putting your wife's life in jeopardy. Since it's obvious that you prefer men you should just be with men and not play this role with your wife. I think it is awful! I don't judge what you do, I just feel bad for your wife because she thinks she has a husband. Can you imagine the pain she will experience when she finds out and she will find out eventually.
Did you see the movie "Far From Heaven" with Dennis Quaid & Julianne Moore? If not you should see it. Stop lieing to your wife, and dating the guy next door is just too close for comfort don't you think?
2006-08-09 06:44:49 · answer #3 · answered by musicisme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a very unwise thing to consider. You both have partners that you have taken a vow to. He was drunk when he said he would go out with you? Did he mean go catch a movie, or actually start dating and having intimate relations with you? Please consider that this was more than likely just the alcohol talking.
Either way, you can't win. There are four people here to be hurt (plus any children involved) so you must consider more than just yourself.
2006-08-03 07:00:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jylsamynne 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A) He was drunk, so he was irrational B) It is just a matter of time your wife finds out C) You are going out with guys for some time???? Um...I don't get that...your wife must be really taking a blind eye D) Don't bring a disease home to your family E) Come clean and get a divorce
2006-08-03 08:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by yippie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Drink.
2. Start up a conversation about how lousy your wife is at giving head.
3. Mention how you hear guys are better at it. Check for reaction.
4. Suggest you try it out. In case of extreme negative reaction, claim you were just kidding.
5. Watch your teeth and remember to play with the balls.
2006-08-03 06:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
steer clear.. u are about to be part of something that is going to hurt people.. have the bottle to end one thing before u start another in this situation..its better for everyone. plus be aware that being the bit on the side u are likely to lose every good thing u have for a thing that won't last 5 minutes.
2006-08-03 05:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by mitchbrowno 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be ok for you two to go out, but if you want to be sexually involved, think before you act. Don't lie to your wives and don't live a double life. At the end, a lot of people will get hurt. Having a simple experience is one thing, destroying other people's life due to its escalations is different.
2006-08-03 04:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by Kookoo Bananas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww, dont do it man. If you are gay, then talk to your wife about it, sort it and come out. If your bi, talk to your wife about it, see if shes OK with open relationships and then go from there - but with single people. Its no more acceptable for men to have affairs with married men, than it is for women too. Way to many people to hurt for a bit of fun.
2006-08-03 04:49:15 · answer #9 · answered by Moi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well for one what if you get caught with him you will ruin your marriage and relationship with her and if you have kids think of them also what if it was just the drink talking you are going to look like the butt hole and may say something to your wife about it but if you really want to try see how he acts around you at the movie try to hold his hand and hint around it see if their is a chance with him good luck
2006-08-03 04:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by mario c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've been watching Brokeback Mountain again havent you?
if you're genuine, then please leave your wife, unless she gives consent and is aware of your extra sexual preferences, same goes for the other guy.
dont leave a mess behind you with lies and cheating
and make sure he DID just mean a movie and not other activities, or you may get a punch on the mouth
2006-08-03 05:07:26 · answer #11 · answered by littlestarr02 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋