I dont know wut to do cause im barely 14 and i love him a lot and if i go to mexico ill never see him again and i see a future with him we realy love eachother, so i have to pick between tha love of my life or my family, see with my family ive been all my life, and now i want to be with the person i love and the guy i want to be with the rest of my life.
2006-08-03 04:30:01 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, move with your family and keep in touch with him when you are 18 then get with him. How old is he now?...Does he have his own home?...Does he make good money?....Is he able to take care of you the way parents do?....
You are way too young to be on your own. I know you feel like you know everything now and you can make it out in this big world without your parents, but you need them and if you did this it would break their hearts.
2006-08-03 04:39:09 · answer #1 · answered by Sandra♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nooooooooo! I know you think you love him, but you're only 14. I know that sounds bad, but there will be many guys come and go and the one that will stay would never ask you to run away with him. If there's problems between him and your family, a good *man* will never run away from the problem. He would stick by you through it. It's selfish and immature for either of you to even suggest running away from home. You still have a long rest of your life to go and do you want to run the risk of losing your family? Your support? They should be your first true love. And what are you going to do for money? What are you going to do if something bad were to happen to you or to him? Stay put right where you're at. I'm sure you don't know how good you've got it right now.
2006-08-03 04:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by mrslangley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl u is 2 young u iz so crazy 2 be even thanking bout that. if u run away it's gone be so hard. if u smart u will just go 2 mexico if u stupid u will runaway there is no such thang as being in love at 14 u need 2 really get some uderstanding cause all dat boy want iz some nookie.
2006-08-03 05:08:20 · answer #3 · answered by $Lil Perfect$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly have feeling for each other keep in touch by writing. You are young very young and if it is meant to be you will see each other again keep contact with him the best you can. Running away is not the answer it will hurt your parents and you in the long run. I really hope you do not run away there are better options talk to your parents and find out if there is a compromise and maybe being able to stay with family during the summer to see him. I don't know if that's a option or not with you.
2006-08-03 04:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by twinsmakesfive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look the answer most of us will be giving you is not the one you really want to hear.
You are too young to be even considering to move with any one. Im not saying you dont love him, but what Iam saying is that 14 is young. You aernt even out of high school yet. HOw old is this guy? Hes probably not even going to be able to care fo you either. So look, take your time in life and enjoy it.
2006-08-03 04:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are meant to be together, you'll make the long distance relationship work. The internet has made the world so much smaller now. You're too young to live on your own, so why not go with your family, and keep in touch with him. Take trips to visit him every six months or so. In a couple of years, you can go to a college near him and be with him.
2006-08-03 04:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure - go right ahead . I am sure no one will mind . You could be a coffee bean picker and have poor ratty kids who dream about coming to America and crossing the border illegally. One or two of your kids may get killed in the process but who cares .
GO TO MEXICO ! There are plenty of men your boy may have to share you with since he can't protect you from all thier wants.
ENJOY MEXICO - it will be filled with LOVE just like your parents give . At 14 your kids can run away with some savages in Brazil . You won't care because you won't give a damm about your stupid girls .
Have a great life in MEXICO !
BOSCO
2006-08-03 04:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Sure" u love him...? i think this its temporarly love, love dosen't come at a young age u might feel like u do but its not but in ure case going to mexico would not bring u a good future in life like going to college and having a better job. Try staying w/ sum relatives and if not possible u should go along w/ure family and i understand it would be hard for u being away so far from him but there would not be a choice.
2006-08-03 04:39:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! You are too young and if he really loves you he will wait for you. What you want at 14 is never what you want at 25. Trust me...you'll go through a lot of changes in the next few years and you'll be glad you didnt do it! Be a kid while you can... Being a grown up isnt always fun.
2006-08-03 04:36:39 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No-go with your family. You are too young too make such a lifer-altering decision. How old is your bf? If he is more than 2 years older than you, he can be arrested for statutory rape, felony kidnapping and assorted other charges. Trust me, you are only 14, it is not time yet for you to be with "the one". Go ahead and move with your family who loves you and will take care of you.
2006-08-03 04:34:39 · answer #10 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋