im seeing this guy we've been together for 2weeks,
but before me he was in a 2 year relationship but she left him 4weeks ago for another guy.
and now she is saying she wants her ex back she doesnt know that im with him.
he is 30 and i am only 19 but hes a really nice guy and we got on well. his ex is 18.
but how i see it is she left him for another guy so she should have a 2nd chance or should i just leave him and let then have another chance.
he has said he doesnt want her and that he wants me but i just dont know.he has been married before and has 2 kids one 7 one 4,
2006-08-03 04:19:51 · 22 answers · asked by sarah 22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'd let him go...Hell I'd run and just leave him in the dust. Are you by chance wearing a shirt that says "nanny/counselor" You need to find someone with less drama.
2006-08-03 04:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by L B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of people are saying leave him but they dont really know anything about the situation.if you really like this guy then go 4 it,if your mate was a true friend she would understand that she had her chance and its tuff luck.when i was 15 my best mate fancied the pants off this lad and finally got with him,they were only together about 3 weeks then he split with her,i was really close to him,he was moving in the army when i realised that i wanted to be with him i told him how i felt,he felt the same so we got together,my friend understood and we were together for 5 years and even tho we split we are still good mates.if i hadnt of gone for it id of still been thinkin what if.go 4 it girl.f**k the age gap,its only a number,happiness is all that matters so if he makes you happy then go 4 it.
2006-08-03 04:45:30 · answer #2 · answered by blueeyedblonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what should you do stay where you are because if it was up to her to leave him alone she was not gonna stand for it girl play hard ball with her *** if he got some kids so what like ciara said girl listen to your heart not the **** that that 18 year old girl be saying she couldn't never chaeted but don't let any ***** come between you or god because a boy and and a men can turn out to be a dog have it your way.
2006-08-03 04:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin' what in the world are you doing with a guy who's NOT only that much older than you, but who has 2 kids? Are you willing to become an instant "mom" to them? You're too young...you need to drop this guy, get out and enjoy your life & avoid all the drama. Life's too short.
2006-08-03 04:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This seems confusing for you because you are too young to know. Certainly too young to make committment and too confused. Most answers after this will say the same. Nothing to do. Do nothing. Let it unfold naturally but do not get too serious. His record is not good either combined with your age, the age gap etc.
2006-08-03 04:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds messy and you are at an age where you dont need to be dealing with all that sh*t!
Have some respect for yourself and let her have him, there REALLY are plenty of other nice guys out there - go find yourself one that wont have so many 'issues'.
You are 19, go out and do want all good 19 year olds should do, have fun and experiment ;o)
Good luck x
2006-08-03 04:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*´M`*♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only hope u realise that you are a flirt in this case. U r all busy challenging God- telling Him to do His worse. He asked u to get married, and ibstead you choose to fornicate and jolly in that.
Its a shame my sister- perhaps u do no realise this. Please talk about marriage and not about offending God.
No more shame,no more bashfullness? He's also having fun? Fun u now call pain and shamelessness. This is a beckon to wrath! Cant you think!
It stink!
2006-08-03 05:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by mikail 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him,you can do better than a man that has 2 kids,been married before,had another relationship for 2 yrs. and God knows...
2006-08-03 04:28:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's his choice he has chosen you so stop being silly and trying to make his decisions for him. He's a grown up, an adult he can make his own decisions he did before you came along & he will after you've gone. So stop trying to ruin something that makes you happy & leave him to make his own decisions
2006-08-03 04:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do, is let the other girl, take the risk with this guy....be wise and leave this guy and give the ball to the other girl...maybe you wont regret this decision...because it will avoid you a lot of trouble.....write back at israelmoya20@yahoo.com
2006-08-03 04:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by israelmoya20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋