2006-08-03 04:14:07 · 33 answers · asked by bsantezee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be honost with her. If you don't want to have kids then tell her so she can decide if she wants to leave you for someone who does.
If you lie to her then she will come to hate you once it is too late for her to have children.
2006-08-03 04:17:51 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about you try to get through a couple of years of marriage first. The last thing the world needs is more father-less kids running around.
2006-08-03 04:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by JDINFLA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first...you should make her your wife. Then if you both are ready plan for a child. Don't do anything until you are completely ready, if you do you will have resentment toward her and the baby. Don't do something you are gonna regret. Use the head on your shoulders not the other one...get my drift?
2006-08-03 04:22:32 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That means your going to have a kid within the year..maybe even 9 months from now...its the one sure thing a women has control over.
2006-08-03 04:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree with her to have them in a few years but for now to enjoy being with one another, in a few years make up your mind to either marry her or leave her. A couple of years is a ling time and she may even change her mind.
2006-08-03 04:18:35 · answer #5 · answered by CrzyCowboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want any kids right now tell her you need more time and explain why (i.e. If there are any financial issues, day care issues, are you married?, things like that...). If she still doesn't understand where you're coming from then it might be time for her to move on...
Good Luck!
2006-08-03 04:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by the best 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it. If she wants kids and you don't, then you should let her move on with her life. Maybe she want a child to know that you will stay with her. Ask her if that's the reason, maybe you can marry her and that will make her happy.
2006-08-03 04:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her well take it one day at a time and well see what happens in the next few years.Tell her you want to make sure your ready before making a bid decision about having children.
2006-08-03 04:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look dude I can relate. My ex wanted a child but I didn't . I gave in. Now she is my ex. She had an affair 6 years later Who got screwed?
2006-08-03 04:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by christsluv4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap that hoe and beat her until she in infertile! LOL Tell her you are not ready. Why would she want to have kids with a man who is not ready yet?
2006-08-03 04:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by Mike Hunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋