Is sex plays number one ? How about if your sexual life doesnt play good with your partner,or i mean he is satisfied and reach the climax but you are'nt ;Is this mean you dont love him? Please tell me im confused of my feelings..i need help..
2006-08-03 04:11:40 · 14 answers · asked by mitch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
marriage is a a legal union of man and woman as husband and wife..it is a socially sanctioned union that reproduces a family..
A wedding.. Sex dont play as number one in marriage .. its love that matters the most..The love and understanding..Being sex unsatisfied doesnt mean you dont love the guy..there are many circumstances that can affect the lovemaking of a couple..
dont worry to much..
2006-08-03 07:05:05 · answer #1 · answered by mabs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me marriage is a life-long commitment to be with the one you love through thick and thin. No cheating allowed. All the sex should remain in the marriage. Yes, you need to be sexually compatible or the marriage is a disaster.
Unfortunately the two times I have been married the husbands did not feel the same way. First cheated on me because he said he needed more sex. Second refused to have sex or seek treatment for no sexual desires so we had no sex.
I hope to find someone in the middle of this range. If not, I hope to sleep around a bit now that I am single again!
2006-08-03 11:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 8 years. We don't have sex every week and sometimes not every month. It isn't as important as being with each other. We have three kids and he works from 7am to 5pm Monday through Saturday. He works outside in 100 degree heat. Because of these conditions, sex isn't as important anymore. When we do have sex, it isn't about the climax, however, we both try to get the other one to climax. If I don't climax, I don't worry. If he doesn't climax, he doesn't worry. Sometimes, sex alone won't climax a person.
2006-08-03 11:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by cows4me79 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your married its not all about sex., or atleast it shouldn't beIf you aren't satisfied it doesn't mean you don't love each other. Try doing it at different times it could be that he is just tired after work so don't wait til he is ready to go to sleep. Also try being on top they don't tend to "go" as fast when you are on top. If all else fells you may actually have to tell him you aren't satisfied but you must be extremely careful in doing so. That is like a really big slam to men. If you haven't been married long it could take a while to get the groove just right .
2006-08-03 11:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by baby kountry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I are seperated because he is serving time in Prison. We have a great relationship where we are best friends and married to each other. We communicate and have a great sense of humor as well. We would be in trouble if our relationship was not based on friendship first. Sex is great, but it is not what makes the relationship, but it helps enhance the emotions.
2006-08-03 11:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not about sex. It is about love. Marriage means that you want to spend the rest of your life with this person. If you have to ask this then you need to grow up cause it sounds like you are only worried about being married to someone who can please you sexually.
2006-08-03 11:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by wildflower2411478 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marrriahe means to select a friend to live . sex must not plays number one.sexual relationship must be satisfactoring if not ther is problem but notice money have a great role in life.
2006-08-03 11:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by eshaghi_2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me marriage means spending the rest of your life with the 1 you love!
2006-08-03 11:17:30 · answer #8 · answered by chrisbrownsyounglove1614 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is a lifetime commitment , sex doesnt matter too much..Being unsatisfied does'nt mean u dont love him for love is different from lust...Love is feeling,understanding and sharing..Love is gift as well as marriage..
2006-08-03 11:31:05 · answer #9 · answered by toryo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to talk w/ him honey, be nice about it, tell him you need more foreplay and more attention to YOUR needs in order to be physically satisfied.
2006-08-03 11:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by koleebear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋