2006-08-03 04:03:00 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
You should divorce your wife. If you're not going to be faithful, there's no point in the marriage. Next time, don't put people through all that. If you know you're not going to stick with the one, just don't bother in the first place.
2006-08-03 04:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it seems you have four choices.
1. Get a girlfriend and keep your wife. Worry about the spiritual and economic consequences later.
2. Tell your wife and explain the reasons why. She should be more than happy to either eliminate any obstacle to you getting a new girlfriend, or remove the desire for a new girlfriend. Just realize that said removal can be done in a ... variety of ways.
3. Divorce your wife and go for it.
4. Get over it and be happy with the wife you have.
2006-08-03 04:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by hogan.enterprises 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A new girlfriend? As in, you've gotten rid of the old one? Then why in the name of heaven did you get married if you wanted girlfriends. Is it o.k. if your wife has boyfriends? You should have saved yourself and your wife the trouble and just not got married. If you want girlfriends, be honest with your wife. You could possibly end up giving her an unwanted disease. If you were my husband, you'd have been out the door long ago.
2006-08-04 06:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by Garfield 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Get rid of the old wife first.
2. Go on line. If you are ugly and a loser and can't get a girlfriend who will marry you from the US, you can use Russian and Filipino websites to find that special lady.
3. Get a pre-nup.
4. Sample the goods before you get married.
2006-08-03 06:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either divorce her or ask your wife if how she feels about having a 3some. Be honest, I would respect my husband if he came to me. Maybe you can have your cake and eat it too. Maybe you'll realize it's not greener on the other side. (It's human nature to want what you can't have) Maybe you'll realize how freaky your wife's fantasy's really are. Maybe you'll realize that you do need to leave her. Maybe you just need to spice up your own love life with your wife.
Frankly....
Nobody here, knows your wife, you or the situations you have.... so the best thing to do is be honest and open in every relationship. You never know how ppl are going to react unless you communicate. so choose your words and the way you say it wizely. Honestly, I would rather have a 3some w/ my husband and some chic, on one occassion....rather than a divorce. But whatever happens look at the pros and cons of the situation and don't put yourself in a position you can't get out of.
Good Luck
2006-08-03 04:19:22 · answer #5 · answered by Krazy K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your wife what you're feeling. Let her decide what to do about it. I'm not going to pass judgment on you. We ALL have different sets of morals and beliefs.
After all, your wife may not be any happier than you are. At least give her the chance to decide to stay, go, keep you, throw you out, try an open relationship, etc.
Remember, in a marriage there are TWO people involved. Your wife only gets ONE trip on the planet. Let her live it honestly and happily, whatever route she chooses.
Good luck!
2006-08-03 04:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least do your significant other the courtesy of talking to them and telling them that you are unfulfilled in the relationship. Talk about it. Ask them if they want out if they say yes, just give your S.O. the divorce and move on and have all of the "new girlfriends" that you want. If the two of you decide to stay together, then at least you both know where you stand and no one is being deceived.
2006-08-03 04:10:11 · answer #7 · answered by NolaD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce
2006-08-03 04:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T divorce your wife. You should do the right thing by being faithful fo the vow that you made to her and forget about the other women, there not even worth it. You made a vow to God and her so you'll be letting down not only yourself but tham also. The Bible says that a woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free... so I suggest that you be obedient to the Word of God. 1Corinthians 7:39
2006-08-03 04:06:45 · answer #9 · answered by Smartest 1 Here 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is supposed to be a lifetime committment. The grass always looks greener someplace else. Try spicing up your love life at home. Get some marriage counseling and do your best to make it work.
2006-08-03 04:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋