should I care about what people think of me?

Question

I'm not a whore or a bad young lady people just don't like me. I try to be nice but it just doesn't work.

Answer 1

Caring what people have to say or think about you will seriously damage your self esteem believe me i know what i'm talking about! you need to love yourself, love the skin that your in. no has a perfect personality and there maybe things you want to work on but do it because you want to change not for others. many people sit on this high pelestal thinking their the best thing since slice bread bringing others down to make theirselves feel better. so i hope with 2cent opinion you can cast those negative people out of your life and surround yourself with positive happy people that love you for YOU!

Answer 2

No. Who cares what they think! Just be yourself and do what you know is right for yourself. Perhaps the other people can get lives so they have less time to worry about what you are doing.

Even if you were promiscuous or 'bad' by their standards, I would say the same.

Answer 3

it is impossible to satisfy everyone you should just care about what you think about your self and not what others think of you. There is always going to people who don't like you for an apparent reason and that's mainly because their jealous and don't want to admit it. Or else they are just haters you should also watch out for the people you chill with cuz it might be them giving you the bad image. Other than that don't try to change for others .

Answer 4

Dont worry about it. As long as you are happy with yourself that is all that matters. if you are in high school then realize that popularity doesnt matter once you leave. Find yourself a good group of friends and a nice guy and you are set. and no matter what you do people will still make fun of you and not like you. but to h*ll wiht them

Answer 5

I'm the same way. I sometimes wonder what the H*** is wrong with people. Thank you for sharing. I definately would not worry about what others think. If you know you are a good person that is all that matters.

Answer 6

As long as you care about what people think, you will be living your life to please everyone else. It is impossible to do that and not only will it drive you crazy, you will never do what makes you happy or what you feel is right; and if you don't know what does... that's what life is all about, finding out who you are!

You need to be yourself and if someone doesn't like you that's their problem. People tend to see what they don't like about themselves in other people. If you just be yourself you will find people that do appreciate you. Not everyone is going to like you, that's just a fact life that everyone has to deal with.

As long as you like yourself then that is all that matters. There are a lot of good people out there, you just need to find them. If you hide your true self and act on what you THINK people what you to do then you are cheating yourself. Relax... have fun you only have one life!

Answer 7

No! Just be yourself, If people can't accept you as you are I say forget them!!!! That's all you can do,I mean don't be cruel to them,But if you're being considerate and nice then that's all you can do, But some people just won't let you be friendly OH WELL good luck

Answer 8

You should keep on trying to be nice and helpful, don't try to be someone that people like so much, just be yourself. Take it easy!

Answer 9

It's possible you are trying too hard. Just be yourself and you will find someone who likes you for who you really are. People in your life will come and go, if you like yourself others will too. Not everyone is going to like you, just like you don't like everyone. Don't worry about them, just worry about you.

Answer 10

The only people you shold worry about are the ones who do for you! Tell the rest 2 kiss your a**!