I hooked up with a young lady while vacationing in San Francisco and went back to New York afterwards. I was invited to a good friends house for a 4th of July picnic and sure enough there were pictures of the same young lady hung on the wall. My friend informed me that the pictures were of his daughter and that she moved to San Francisco about a year earlier. He said she would be coming home for a Labor day party that I'm also invited to. Should I tell him? It's not like I knew it was his daughter! Should I just let it go and avoid the labor day party? Help!
2006-08-03 03:56:49 · 30 answers · asked by I'manalienfrog 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She is in her mid 20s
2006-08-03 04:19:52 · update #1
Don't tell him. and don't go to the party. On the other hand.... if you could bang his wife...then I would tell him of both and go to the party..... drinks will be on him ;-)
2006-08-03 04:12:39 · answer #1 · answered by moonlite1us 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, do not tell him.
If you friend has no pictures of you, then the joke is going to be on her, isn't it?! You MUST go to the Labor Day party, just to show up, smile at the girl as she learns what she did, and how she's been a one night skank right under the nose of her father! And don't EVER tell the daughter what you did, or did not tell, her father. Try to go on a diet between now and Labor Day to get yourself in great GREAT shape for the drama the daughter is about to experience!
This is what is called "being in the catbird seat." It is a perfect situation. Enjoy it.
2006-08-03 11:13:32 · answer #2 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak w/the young lady 1st because this affects her to.. now if u can't contact her then let him know u met her in san francisco and if he asks did u's sleep together then say yes.. it's not like u knew..
but if u don't tell and he finds out later it's gonna ruin the friendship.. speak to him about this before going to the labor day party...
2006-08-03 11:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him because if he hears it from someone else he will be even mader. Just explain that you didn't know that was his daughter and that it will never happen again and if doesn't except the fact that you told him then maybe not being his friend id the best thing to do.
2006-08-03 11:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by anw110784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything and go have fun at the party. I don't think she will say anything thing because who wants their father to know who they sleep with. Go party hard everything will be great. Who knows you might get some after the party!
2006-08-03 11:53:22 · answer #5 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume it was a one night stand, and you arent communicating with the daughter. If you are communicating, then let her know the situation. Last thing you want to happen is to have her discover your her Dad's friend later on. Telling him serves no purpose otherthan being cruel.
2006-08-03 11:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait and see How She acts when in town. It sure is a big coincidence that of all people in San Francisco you would meet her????
2006-08-03 11:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by Mrsdonmar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good, god you have yourself in a bit of a pickle there don't you?well the cat will be out of the bag at some point so i think that you should tell him,was it a fling,a one night stand?or are the two of you in a relationship...be honest with your good friend it might be a bit of a shock at first but as long as she is over the age of consent,you should be OK.
2006-08-03 11:02:46 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him. If you are in contact with her let her know so that she can keep her mouth shut. You are both adults and need to act like it. And that includes not talking, bragging, or sharing what you have or have not done with anyone else.
2006-08-03 11:01:28 · answer #9 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
small azz world aint it?hahaha just let it go. have you talked to chick again? boy wont that be on hell of a dinner conversation. and who knows it may be fate working for you. if everybody is of age maybe you should go to that party and see how she reacts.
2006-08-03 11:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only tell him if you have a death wish.
Oh, and yes, find an excuse not to go to the party.
Maybe give her a call when she's in town and you can hook up again.
2006-08-03 11:01:53 · answer #11 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋