well im a 14 year old boy who has no friends i get beaten up every day and i found this friend my one true friend but i have a bit of a short temper i think its just because im going through puberty andyway he started calling me gay a a luagh and i just said no but he kept going on and on so i just logged off and know i have no friends wat do i do if i email him back hell think im gay or a desprate for friends.......
2006-08-03 03:41:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds like the old hormones are all over the place.
My advice, remember it all get's so much better in about 4 years time and honestly what you're going through now isn't a big deal.
2006-08-03 03:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by sly` 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Mate
Life's a *****, Things always seem bad when your 14 trust me i know, I've been there. I had it pretty rough when i was your age, I'm now 22 and i promise you that things will get easier. I don't have many friends but those i do i know i can trust. Don't give up with this mate, email them back and say you just don't like being called gay, if hes got a problem with that then he wasn't a true friend anyway so move on. Join a club of some sort or take up a sport. Don't spend all your time indoors on the computer, you do have to face reality at some point.
Take care Hun, contact me if ever wanna chat to some one, but it WILL get easier x
2006-08-03 11:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u use ur 360page on Yahoo? If not then maybe u should have a go with it? You can add people and IM them and look for people your age to chat to.
Really u should be out making proper friends, if u show people u arent a punch bag, stand up for yourself, then hopefully people will stop being so nasty?
Email your friend, if they were a true enough friend they will understand why you got so annoyed at being called gay.
Im sure everything will turn out fine, feel free to IM me if your bored!!
Good luck mate, x
2006-08-03 10:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by splight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some friends in the real world. Sure, cyber friends are nice to have, but come on, go outside and play. Ride a bike, skate board, anything. Just go out and let the sun shine on you for a while. Being a fat video game geek is no way to go through life.
2006-08-03 10:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by Alan J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is okay u really don't have to have friends! Don't worry u should not email him. If he calls u those types of names there are better chances of him doing something worse . if u email him that is called buying friends. and for all the people who bully u stand up to them and be like hey u need to leave me alone because u have nothing else better to do then to bully me then say god bless u and walk away p.s i will be your friend and i will also help u find friends online i am 13 years old
2006-08-03 10:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by mzangel09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh this is a really hard one to answer - why don't you prove to him that you're not gay by asking inquistly about a girl you both know! Even if it is just a celebrity or say something like ' hey do you wanna go on a chat room and see if we can chat up any girls - something like that"
I'm not the best one to answer this question i'm afraid.
2006-08-03 10:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by purpletear2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont let anyone be little you send him an e-mail and explain that you are not gay you just value his friendship, and if he would like to be friends again to e-mail you back, if not join some clubs or somthing get a pen friend or somthing you will find friends,good luck
2006-08-03 10:57:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rough life.. get some real friends m8s dont take the micky out of you!! when your older you will realise what a true friend is like
2006-08-03 10:52:50 · answer #8 · answered by Sasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no sympathy if u have a short temper. U must be a bully.
2006-08-03 15:06:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just act like nothing happened , if he asks just say oh my net went out
2006-08-03 10:49:38 · answer #10 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋