2006-08-03 03:38:01 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your friend is displaying deep resentment, -probably the result of jealousy.
You friend knows how you feel and doesn't care. He/she wants to hurt you over and over.
As you grow you will meet a lot more people like your friend who would deliberately hurt you and you will have to deal with them too.
You can lay down the rules now so that later on you will not feel so helpless or sad.
My rule is love does not hurt - if someone hurts me in the same way more than once and continue to do it - they dislike me, they are resentful, they DO NOT LOVE me.
My solution: Get rid of them so I could move on and meet the people who love, respect and genuinely care about me.
So, dump your friend!. You will be better off for it.
2006-08-03 03:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to convince your friend to not to do that. But then also he/she starts to do stuff like this, then just throw a BOOMERANG. Means make fun of him/her by comparing with a girl/boy, so that he/she will also feel ashamed.
2006-08-03 10:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by bluetoothbirds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some friends are a bit hurt full sum times when ur friend says it again act like u don`care. that`s his/her opinion all she/he wants 2 do is make u feel like a dot. tell she/he need 3 b nice or the friendship will end and thats it!!!
ur helper unknown
2006-08-03 10:49:19 · answer #3 · answered by fob_rocker0505 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you ashamed of that guy, to begin with? Find something positive about that poor guy; maybe he's booksmart or he's got a kind heart. So the next time your ******* friend makes fun of you, you say, "Thanks! By the way, that guy you are comparing me with is brilliant! I never knew you thought so highly of me! Gee! Thanks!"
2006-08-03 10:45:32 · answer #4 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are feeling ashamed you need to speak up and say something. Ask them to stop. If they won't, then they are not your friend.
2006-08-03 10:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by kalsmom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are NOT your 'friend'.
Don't feel ashamed because of their ignorance.
Lose this person as a 'friend'.
Good luck.
2006-08-04 07:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by JC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a new look by doing a girlie makeover. wear lots of pink an use flowery perfume , jewelry and just all kinds of things that are feminine.don't know how old you are or could suggest more. good luck
2006-08-03 11:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends don't make fun of friends. Advice, don't stay in contact with that person, they don't deserve your friendship. If it was me, I wouldn't answer their calls, and if I saw them on the street, I'd turn and walk the other way.
2006-08-03 10:44:22 · answer #8 · answered by just wondering 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend makes fun of you in a mean way, then she's not really your friend.
2006-08-03 10:42:27 · answer #9 · answered by wormwoodkid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every person is always different from other, don't be afraid to get compared, some or other thing is always incomparable. Some quality is always better in some then others. Always remember.
2006-08-03 13:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by sukhwinder b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋