Why do white guys want to be dominated by Black men?

Answer 1

First off it's not all white guys...but from those who have approached me with such requests, it has something to do with the power relationships in their day to day lives. Most who have approached me are well-to-do white guys--CEO types and whatnot, and they seem to be responding to me NOT as a black guy, but as a fetish. When one looks at images of black men, in both the gay and straight communities, black men are seldom represented as just regular guys. We have larger endowment, we are more passionately animalistic, we are apparently everything that white Americans think we are, but we are NOT human. As forces of sexual domination and all of that, we are often treated as appliances and even possessions, so even as we're being asked to dominate someone and to "rape" them, we are seldom being asked by these people to be their companions, their friends, or their equals. Our role in their lives is to simply provide the fulfillment of one of THEIR fantasies.

Answer 2

Black Men Dominate White Men

Answer 3

I can't speak for other white guys -- but I certainly don't want to be dominated by a black guy -- or any guy --- I've never been into B and D or any of the rest of the alphabet soup.

However, I know that in the case of the straight leather community I've had it explained to me by a psychologist that a lot of high performing men like to go and give complete power over themselves to a female who will mistreat them, because it let's them release it all -- the pressure, the control, etc. It may be the same.

Have fun.

Reyn
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Answer 4

Wow, I didn't realize that ALL white guys want to be dominated by black men. What a revelation.

Answer 5

WELL, here in SA I am surrounded by HOT BLACK MEN (I am White). I cannot say that I want to be dominated by either a black, white, pink , blue or any man. AND I do not want to dominate any men. (I am gay)

The ones that you have met must simply have a fetish to be dominated by Black men.

Answer 6

I'm white and I don't want to be dominated by black men. Sexually - I'm into whites and Latino's. However I have black people as friends - both gay and straight.

I know that black tops love a willing white bottom! They pounce on it!

Answer 7

There has been a study that has discovered that many top executives in the straight world; particularly White males often visit places where they can be dominated sexually by a dominatrix. This includes humiliation, spanking, begging and other sort of mischief. The point; they have achieve status as powerful individuals and would like someone to take control over them.

In the gay community; its the White male who fantasies of having a Black male rape him uncontrollably. Making him do all sorts of naughty things. Being able to receive his big load. Being unable to resist his strong, sexually animistic force of nature. I have encounter several individuals, wanting me to participate in a rape fantasy. I declined, but the offer was there.

Answer 8

I m not sure why it s not viewed as black men who love white men. Additionally, I find black men quite selfish in the bedroom. In my experience most black men wanna get oral and be the top with little reciprocation considered or given. It s possible that some black men like having control over their white partners as well.m

Answer 9

I'm white as the driven snow and I will never be dominated by any black man.You're making a sick generalization.

Answer 10

We don't all want to be dominated.
I'm very much into scenes where the power is mutual, nobody is dominated .