2006-08-03 03:22:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
depends on your beliefs....personally, i wouldn't marry someone unless I had sex with them first....granted, sex isn't everything, but it is a very important part of a marriage...and if the sex isn't good it will cause problems in the marriage....find out before you get married.
2006-08-03 03:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time you are with someone, you are giving of yourself, emotionally, physically, and more. You can't help it, even if you are one to sleep around a part of yourself is left with that person. It is a bond that is formed and can be a powerful glue or something that can tear you apart.
It needs to be used wisely. In addition, if you sleep around before marriage and you finally get the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, you may find yourself comparing the sex you are having with your true love to the one you had the best sex with before marriage. It may cause you not to be satisfied and wish you had something else. Even if your partner doesn't know, it could eat at you and cause dissatisfaction.
If you both wait, you can learn and grow together and make it as plain or as freaky as you want, and it will be all good! LOL
2006-08-03 10:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by Poppieseed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a Christian or believer of God then you would know that fornication (sex before marriage) is indeed a sin. Don't let society's current moral low steer you off the right road.
2006-08-03 10:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by Black Like A Tar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is natural and the old idea of virginity and chastity are ridiculous. We are animals and when we learn that our bodies are not to be denied, society will be better for it. However, you must be logical and protect against an unwanted pregnancy or the horrors of a sexual disease. With that in mind, the warmth and the physical closeness of intercourse is bliss.
2006-08-03 10:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by Frank 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A gentlemen wouldn't have sex before marriage and neither would a lady. It is immoral, piggish behavior.
2006-08-03 10:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by kingccake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! its not wrong!!! Stopping sex before marriage is like fixing a crack in the hoover dam with a french fry...
2006-08-03 10:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. it is strongly advised. But of course it depends on your beliefs also. Do you prefer to have a frustrated long life or be morally correct?
2006-08-03 10:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by Amantia A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with it marriage is something made by women to try and control the free raomnig man and to heard us into these groups they call "families" hit it and quit it. then keep raoming my free men every where.
just playing . it's okay with me just dont use your self up and save something for the one you will evvetually want to settle down with.
2006-08-03 10:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by vexed and glorious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been for about 3-4 years. But we are going to be getting married, so I think it's ok. :-)
2006-08-03 10:27:40 · answer #9 · answered by Yoi_55 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can see spending the rest of your life with your partner. But really it depends on how YOU and your partner feel what's right.
2006-08-03 10:27:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋