My cuz and her husband went to the beach this week with his family she decided on the beach and they all agree to go, but her husband want to go another beach, She name some other beaches, but he decline,.
On the way she miss the road to the beach and her husband start to quarrel with her for that, when they reach he and his family didn't bath at all, because they say it has to many ppl. They were upset, My cuz didn't not notice it. she ask her husband to come bath but he didn't. So she went swimming. Her husband was displease and storm back to the car. At a time she went looking for him asking him whats worng, he say" You always like to do what you want and don't care about his feeling, & she is selfish."
On the drive back home he didn't speak to he only his family, she felt very bad, the she ask he to get something to eat and he started to quarrel again.
He has notspeaken to her for the past days what should she do?
2006-08-03 02:54:31 · 14 answers · asked by *Cutie* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Truly, these kinds of domestic troubles have so much history and are so deeply complicated, that it's impossible to fairly answer your question. When emotions are involved, nothing has an easy answer...especially when the answer is being given by someone with insufficient knowledge of the couple and all that is relevant to their relationship.
2006-08-03 03:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well me as far as i see that is that he has a lot going on , and he might have some problems that he dont even know about so i would try to talk to him, tell him how you feel and how it hurts u what he does and if this is not getting to him than take him and see some help cuz that he just shutting u down with his stuff and this is not right cuz it can make u ill on da long run i know what im talking bout and if u love this person and u willing to fix it u do anything i mean anything to get this right good bless u
2006-08-03 03:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by uwish u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only the ego problem. Do u know why Indians marry only once and lives life long with? Bcoz, the female used to give up most of the time taking any decision, so the man takes the decisions and she follow her, but it doesn't mean that he do not ask her, he always ask her for opinion, and takes final decision accordingly. I am a married man from last 5 years and living happily, not only me but she is also happy with me, although we have difference of opinion, but we just resolve it, only becoz if sometime i strongly denai her opinion, she just let down, and sometime i have to let down with my opinion. This is the only way to live a HAPPY MARRIED LIFE, otherwise keep changing ur life-partner as cloths.
2006-08-03 03:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by Ashok 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow up because if he gets upset over stupid things like that he is going to end up having a heart attack at a very younge age.
2006-08-03 03:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she shouldnt not suck up to his rubbish. Next time he does something like that answer him back and tell him to respect himself and the ppl around him. If she leaves him, he will take advantage of this and will continue this unacceptable behaviour. i think he was bullied in school and now he wants to take control.
2006-08-03 03:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by honey bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should tell him to grow the hell up and start acting his age instead of his shoe size. The world does not revolve around him.
2006-08-03 02:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is a big baby. If he gets so mad about something so petty just imagine his reaction to something more serious.
2006-08-03 02:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel i think she shud talk to him and maybe tell him what she is feeling.
and if things still aint going wel find out what kind of things he wants to do and maybe do things you all want to do. then he cant complain.
good luck lov gem xxxx
2006-08-03 03:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by gem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go alone next time.
don't ask him to go EVER again.
stay the weekend.
leave him home with the kids.
HAVE A GOOD TIME!
2006-08-03 04:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can try to please him by cooking some of her husbands favourite dishes.there's a saying " the way to man's heart goes through his stomach"
2006-08-03 03:00:53 · answer #10 · answered by simi k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋