am a mother of 4 and am 40 year old,,,my last PAP smear test was when done when my last child were born 10 years ago,and i was diagnosed as having a infection and was asked to go have a biopsy done.which i did not go ,but nowadays whenever i allow my husband to have intercourse with me which is very rarely about once every 2 month.i feel this dull pain.could it be doing to some infected glands?cervical infection or something more serious?sometimes.after my menses.there is this foul smelly discharge,accompanied by pubic bone pains,,it feels tender and painful.specially so during the "might "menstrual time.however the vaginal discharges has dissapeared,after i have beeing eating yogurrt and drink teas,and wash myself with apple cider vinegar..once i even bleed on my vagina when my husband was really rough on me.what is going on?thanx for any info.
2006-08-03 02:54:13 · 7 answers · asked by brasil_mulher 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
am not haggard yet for my age,and although i am nearly 41 of age,i do have the looks of a 29/30 year old,and my children are of age 22,21,16 and 10 respectively,so the point to ask such question was to find out if there's similar cases like me in here,of women who are long time married like me(23 yrs) and suffer the same symptoms as me during sex,as i've heard it could be a psychological factor,as in some cases,when the wife does not like her husband,no more,and the brain sends a signal to the body to respond tis way?cos being of southeast asia origin,my husband is not "big"in size ,hence he could not possible "hurt"a mother of 4 like me,sexually speaking?dont you'r think so?thanks
2006-08-03 05:19:53 · update #1
1stly, when the doctor ask you to do a biopsy, you should go because they are suspecting something. 2ndly, you should do pap smear reguarly because of the 1st point. 3rdly, you are having discharges even though now it stopped, you have pain. lastly, i dont think you are in your menopause, so it shouldnt bleed unless your husband is really that rough.
anyway, there can be quite a number of possibilities. pain during sex can be due to endometriosis. it can also be pelvic inflammatory disease. you should see your gyn.
2006-08-03 06:19:26 · answer #1 · answered by rachelkelly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would go to the doctor and get checked out. 10 years is too long to go without a female exam. It could be something easy to fix and could get worse over time. If it isn't something easy to fix then you need to get to it before it gets so bad that it kills you. How would that look? Your family has to say that you died from crotch rot of some sort. Not a pretty picture. So call the doc, make and keep an appointment. Do yourself a favor and live to see your grandchildren.
2006-08-03 03:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by madamesophia1969 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know much about this. My advice is that you go to see a doctor and follow their advice. You still got 4 kids + 1 husband to take care.
2006-08-03 04:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by chawcs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lorry, I stopped crying years ago. I wish I could. I still get really sad some times, but the tears just won't come. Not even happy tears. No tears at all.
2016-03-26 21:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go to the doctor they are the best ones to answer your question...if the doctor asked for a biopsy then you could have something wrong....best to find out what it is and get it fixed...
2006-08-03 03:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by c_sheets69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately go to the doctor.
2006-08-03 03:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go n c a doc.
2006-08-03 04:32:39 · answer #7 · answered by sugar babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋