I am 20 and my sis is 21, we love each others very much, She will do anything for me, even if she dont like that, she simply obeys me becoz of the love she have for me, me too remain the same i will give up anything for her..
here is the problem, when ever my sister move with her friends, i just hate that thing, especially, when a boy speaks to her i starts hating her, i never kept anything from my sister, becoz of this controversy i decided to maintain some distance from her..
she too remains more worser than me, when i speak to some of my girl friends, she doesnt seems to be comfortable..
me and she are like MOM and SON.
i dont want to give her up for any reason, she is my soul.. i LOVe her very much.. i just dont want to loose her because of this.
i am afraid that very soon we will broke up..
please give a good solution for this problem and y it happens to us like this?
2006-08-03 02:31:39 · 15 answers · asked by cutepraveen4u 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
make her boy friend as your friend in the same advice for your sister also
2006-08-03 02:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by krish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very nice that you have a strong relationship with your sister, but you must understand one thing. She is always going to be your sister no matter what. Stop being selfish and let her fly and spread her wings, let her socialize, have different types of friends. It is by meeting and interacting with a variety of people that she will know what she wants in a man and from a man. Re member you don't want her to end up with a jerk, an asswhole or a man who is going to hurt her or whatsoever. You must respect her friends and so do her. The thing to learn here is that you guys love each other and you always going to be there for each other regardless of anything. There is a big bond among you guys nothing or nobody could ever brake it. Let her be happy and have fun at the end of the day you know that she is your best friend and your soul and so do her. God Bless you and good luck . don't complivate your life for small things, enjoy it , Life is too short and be glad that you have a sister. there is a lot of people out there that they are not as fortunate as you are.
2006-08-03 09:48:36 · answer #2 · answered by pj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family, you should support each others decisions and if they do not result in healthy choices then each should be their for one another...your having some problems separating whats best for them and whats best for you...there is no reason you both would ever be broken up, you will always be family regardless what comes between the two of you...your both growing up and need to recognize there may be others that come into your lives but you will always have a special connection with your sister.
2006-08-03 09:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you and your sister has to respect the fact that you both have your own separate lives!!! Its okay for you to love her but you must accept that she has to move on and so do you !!! Maybe now that shes moved away still get together for once or twice a week call each other talk and include each other in activities such as shopping dinner that sort of thing!!!
2006-08-03 09:37:01 · answer #4 · answered by cocoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hon it seems to me that you and your sister have an unhealthy relationship. it's great that in this day and age that people are friends even though they are related and care about each other so much especially brother and sister, but my feeling is that you both need to have your own friends and set perimeters, socialise with others some more and talk about your feelings with each other and or a trusted family member or friend, pastor or professional counselor, anyhow all the best.
2006-08-03 09:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by diva anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u two r grown ups...y acting like kids? u both hav ur individual lives,dont mix them,sis bro relation is one thing n havin a gf is another thing......respect each others personal space n how on earth u can break with her she is ur sis,no matter what happens she'll remain ur sis......so plz forget bout that.
2006-08-03 09:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by pam c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is your sister NOT YOUR GIRLFRIEND get a clue you can go to jail for incest not to mention it is a bad moral judgment sounds like she is trying to stay away from you and do the right thing why don't you be a man and do the same thing
2006-08-03 09:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by drunkdebbie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you 2 are brother and sister, u can have bf and gfs!!! u dont have to like him so tell her dont just not talk to her shes ur sis, u have to learn shes growning up now
2006-08-03 09:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ignore her and dont push her away just call her up and when a guy talks to her just try not to be too over protective if hes tryin too hare go after him. if your still not comfertable about it just walk over to her if a guy comes up.
2006-08-03 09:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by jessie lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are relatives and will NEVER be broke up. Blood is thicker than water.
2006-08-03 09:35:59 · answer #10 · answered by Sandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋