although my partner and i are over the moon, i cant help but worry that it will end in miscarriage like a previous pregnancy did a few months ago. i have had a early pregnancy scan which showed a heart beat still im worried. when do u think the worry will go away so i can enjoy this pregnancy?
2006-08-03 02:03:05 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
CONGRATULATIONS.
Stop worrying.... The mental stress might cause other problems. The fact that you have had it once does not mean it will happen again. Enjoy your pregnancy and relax. It's summer time... go for a walk, read, eat well, but do not stress yourself with the things that MIGHT happen... it's not worth it.
2006-08-03 03:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Blue Blue Blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their is always a doubt once you have had a miscarriage. My first pregnancy went fine. Waited a year got pregnant right away. Misscarried @ 10 weeks. So I went back on BC missed a pill got pregnant 2 months later. I had a really hard time till I hit about 24,25 weeks. I kept thinking what if I have a misscarriage, I didn't and he's here and healthy. It was always in the back of my mind but it didn't make my pregnancy unenjoyable. Once you actually hear the heartbeat it put almost all your worries to rest. And when you find out the sex of your baby(if you do) or when they do the 20 week ultrasound for everything else, your in the safe zone.
2006-08-03 02:12:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations! It is wonderful that you are pregnant again after a m/c. If you are the type to worry you are likely to worry anyway, whatyever people tell you to do here. Telling you that worry harms the baby will only make you worry more! Hopefully as the pregnancy progresses you will become less anxious and enjoy more, esp when you get past 24ish weeeks when the baby could be delivered. Good luck.
2006-08-03 04:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by Cazza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur worry will go away in a few weeks. Did u know after 9 weeks the baby has all its little body parts so that means that there's a very Sim Chance that the baby will die. so u can stop worrying and enjoy this pregnancy.
I hope u enjoy ur pregnancy and at the end I hope u have a lovey healthy baby.Good luck and congratulations
2006-08-03 02:14:24 · answer #4 · answered by Joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, worrying and stress are very harmful to the baby - so it's best if you stop now. It's all in God's hands and if this pregnancy is meant to go through, it will. No matter what you or anyone else does. After three or four months it's safe to say it's going to be a "viable" pregnancy, but there are no guarantees in life. There are late miscarriages, there are stillbirths, and all kinds of other things. The best thing is to stop worrying, take your prenatal vitamins, go to DR appointments, and take great care of your body/baby. Good luck.
2006-08-03 02:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by Sadie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt relax until I was about 6 .5 months pregnant with my second baby, but he was born healthy thank god. My first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage when I was 5 months (21 weeks) pregnant. My son was 10 and 3quarters inches long and weighed 12 ounces. if I could have carried him maybe another month me might not have died. he lived 10 minutes.he was a perfect little boy, all 10 fingers and toes. This was the Saddest day of my life.. and always will be
2006-08-03 02:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by luvnuttydog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say the first 3 months are the most vulnerable times.
We had a similar problem with miscarriage, (we were told the first might have been ectopic and at the second I was told that there was only a 50% chance that my partner would be able to carry beyond 3 months) but we are going to have a baby in December and all is going well.
Just relax and be patient .....
Good luck and congratulations
2006-08-03 02:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by break 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, from my first pregnancy to this that I am in right now, the worry never goes away it's something that stays in your mind. I was nervous up until the minute my son was born, but even thought I was worried I didn't let that get me down. You shouldn't worry so much because that can cause a lot of damage too. Just enjoy yourself and be carefull and say your prayers.
2006-08-03 03:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by BlackBerry DymondTink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you worry and doubt that the pregnancy will last then you will lose the baby. Research shows that miscarriages mostly happens when a woman doubts the pregnancy and starts to worry. Relax and Congrats
2006-08-03 02:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck with your pregnancy, I hope it does run smoothly for you. The chance of miscarraige is greatly reduced after 3mths, so you can begin to feel more confident once you hit this point. However there is always risk and I guess the only way you can try to decrease your worry is by ensuring that you are actively doing your best for your baby- eating well, trying not to get too stressed, taking appropriate vitamins- check with your doctor, and by doing gentle exercise. One thing to bear in mind is that miscarraiges often occur if the baby is too sick to make it to full term, and while that does not necessarily make it easier, there is a genuine reason for it to happen. Good luck, and try to relax and enjoy it!
2006-08-03 02:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by emily_jane2379 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋