complains about his ex (which he has 2 daughters from) but then goes to her house and ask for a haircut and eyebrow wax. Should this bug me? I mean he does go see his daughters. But the fact that there break up was so recent it just makes me very insecure. Although he has presented me to his family including daughters and includes me in everything, but the fact that he can go somewhere else to get the haircut kind of bugs me that he will go to his ex and if you read the rest of my questions maybe you can give some advice or something
2006-08-03 01:56:05 · 25 answers · asked by florlatinspice0825 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it would bug me too, i agree he could anywhere else for a haircut. talk to him about this and how uncomfortable you are about it. lets hope he listens to you.
2006-08-03 02:00:00 · answer #1 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel bothered too about him getting a haircut and eyebrow wax from his ex. Why is he complaining about her though? Does he think that she charges too much????? ...lol..Sorry. I was just wondering, why is he complaining about her and then go there, not for the kids only, but also to have his eyebrows done etc. That's not right. He should consider your feelings too. You should tell him that it bothers you that he does that.
And yeah, you should ask him to go with him next time he goes to see his daughters.
2006-08-03 09:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame you that its bugs you, it would me too. Maybe you can ask if you could go with him every now and again. Or maybe volunteer to take him to a place to get his hair cut. Make up some simple excuse to have to go with him. Then you can see how they are around each other and maybe get a better answer. Or if you really don't want to act like 007, just come out and tell him that your uncomfortable with him going over there to see her for a hair cut. And especially the eyebrow waxing!
2006-08-03 09:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by Cait 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first step, address this problem with him. Let him know how uncomfortable it makes you that he goes over there for that and ask if you can go with him. Also remember that she will always be a part of his life since they have two kids together. You have to come to terms with that before you can have a healthy relationship. Lastly you need to figure out why you're dating a guy who gets his eyebrows waxed! lol that's very metrosexual.
2006-08-03 09:10:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you need to trust people. It may be hard to see him with your ex, but not every relationship ends in a bad way. Take it from someone who is friends with all but one of his ex girlfriends. And also remember there are kids involved too. But the fact that he is including you with everything is a good thing an is a show of love and faith that you will trust him. Give him the benifit of the doubt till he starts hiding things from you. Then kick his *** out of your life.
2006-08-03 09:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by David R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, if his split with his wife is recent, then you could possibly be rebound material, but, that is not always the case....perhaps they are still friends, and they will always have the connection because they have children together. I would suggest you also become friends with his ex, if that is possible...you know, this world would be tremendously improved if all of us could be a little easier on everyone and pour our hearts into raising good children.
I pray for you all, dear one.
2006-08-03 09:00:35 · answer #6 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about your feelings....If still goes on, start going with him... But, mostly could be the fact he wants to see his kids and get a discount on hair/wax done.
2006-08-03 09:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by MsLysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If iy bothers you, then tell him or if you can't then just go with him whenever he goes there to get his hair cut or wax or you could tell him that you know someone who does a good hair cut and accompany him. I hope he gets the hint. Good luck.
2006-08-03 09:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by my 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will bug me, but the fact that he has introduced you to his family means you matter to him, so try to have a talk with him if you can't stand it. Be as gentle as possible.
2006-08-03 09:14:21 · answer #9 · answered by G K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eye brow wax?? Sorry but I just can't be with a man who does funky thinks like that.
2006-08-03 09:08:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋