hi womens, i have a girl friend n i'am gonna marry her, but the thing is i just wanna know she's virgin or not ? coz i'am still not used..
2006-08-03 01:49:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Who cares, her past is her past.
2006-08-03 01:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by vsecrets24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just going to have to sit down with her, tell her that you are still a male virgin. Explain to her that you do love her and that you plan on spending the rest of your life with her. And then very gentle without out being condescending, without being holier then thou ask her if she is still a virgin.
Depending on her response and how you feel about it if she is not a virgin then you can continue to plan your life with her or with out her.
Where there are alot of cultures and individuals that still believe that giving your husband your virginity on your wedding night is the greatest gift you can give him. Society and times have changed and most woman and men are not virgins on their wedding day. You should not hold that against your girlfriend if you really love her. There are alot of reason that she could not be a virgin. Society pressures, pressures from men she has had relations with in the past, maybe she loved someone before you and she felt it was right and wanted to share intimacy with him.
Whether she is a virgin or not does in no way take away from your love for her or hers for you.
Good Luck, God Bless
2006-08-03 09:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by ETxYellowRose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men u must be very sick, that's why u don't want men to answer the question. why would marry in the first place with out making love to a woman u want to marry, men u are making mistake,. do u know whether u will like her sex quality. man i tell u, if she is not good enough on sex , i tell u, u will regret may be cost committing adultery so u better try and fuke crazy out of her and stop digging on getting a virgin cos thas an old stuff
2006-08-03 09:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are not very clear. But I believe you want to get married to your girlfriend and want to know if she's a virgin or not.
I ask you why? If you love her, it doesn't matter if she's a virgin or not. You take her for who she is. You would want her to take you as you are, wouldn't you? Virgin or not.
If you're a virgin, I believe you should stop feeling embarrassed..it is something to be proud of. Talk to her about it. That's why you want to get married to her, because you feel comfortable to have conversations with her at many different levels.
2006-08-03 08:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you plan on marrying her then that should not matter. Also, if you are going to be marrying her you should be able to ask that question. Why would you sleep with someone with out being truthful about your past first. What if she is not a virgin and has HIV?
2006-08-03 09:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I think it is something to be proud of if you are a virgin when you get married! Also, you need to ask your future wife, if she is a virgin! If you can't talk to her about things now, you won't be able to talk once you get married! And the key to a good marriage is honesty and COMMUNICATION! So sit her done and have a heart to heart, Good Luck and God bless!
2006-08-03 09:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by iLoveDawnDawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to no if she is a virgin or not. I thought you loved her and that is why you are marrying her. What happened in the past should be left in the past, it shouldn't make any difference to you what so ever. Are you going to change your mind if you find that she isn't?
2006-08-03 09:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK whats the problem here??
you don't no if your gal is a virgin
hmmmmmmmmmm so you gonna marry someone you cant talk to
i think you should sit and think is this the right thing to do getting married is one thing BUT if you don't talk i can not see this marriage lasting
respect
shaz
2006-08-03 14:19:53 · answer #8 · answered by sharon B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude...Dont marry her...if u dont trust her you have no right to marry her. Does her past really bother you..why? Live in the present.
And if u yet wanna know about her virginity, ask her
2006-08-03 08:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by Vinash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be with someone and not know if they've had sex before you or not. BUT, ok try asking her, am pretty sure she will not lie to you. If she tells you she is trust her answer. Yet if she tells you she is not don't judge her by her past, judge her by the person she is with you now.
GOOD LUCK
2006-08-03 09:26:00 · answer #10 · answered by ur_scooby_snack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is only 2 ways of knowing 1 she tells u 2 u find out by experience so if u wanna know b4 experience u should ask her or find out the hard way
2006-08-03 08:58:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋