if your best friend lied to you what would you do?

Question

the thing is I'd just found out i was pregnant and she'd gone out. my boyfriend was also out this night(not with her) and didn't come home. Early hours of the morning i rang her to see if she had seen him she said he had been arrestedfor fighting(and swore on her baby's and my unborn baby's life). i found out a few days later he stayed at hers but nothing happened. what should i do they both lied but would they have lied if nothing had happened? help!

Answer 1

"Best Friends" don't lie to you. Honesty is the foundation of friendship. Without that, there is nothing solid. Rethink your friendship and never let your guard down!

Answer 2

Hiya, I just read your question and I think that your friend and boyfriend have done the worst thing they could do to you. Even though they claim nothing happened while he stayed there why did they lie about it in the first place? Your friend has made it worse by swearing that nothing happened before you had even suggested it which would make you and me think that something in fact had happened.

The only way you will know for sure is ask them straight out. They will either tel you the truth and say what happened or didn't happen or they will continue to lie. Only you will know if they are lying as they are your friends. If you are not sure about it then go with your instincts. If something is saying that they are lying then they are if your being told they are telling the truth then go with that and believe they are.

I hope this helps I have also been in this situation before and something had happened.

Kind Regards

Answer 3

OK if this was completely innocent then why would she feel a need to lie to you. I would possibly believe it was innocent had she have called you and told you he was there and staying the night. (i.e. he was too drunk to drive so she took him some place safe). The fact that she felt the need to lie tells me that it was not innocent. Now you are going to take her word for it that nothing happened. Think about sweetie. She even gave you an elaborate story that he had been arrested. I would say she is being dishonest when she says nothing happened as well. When you called looking for him chances are he was still at her house. If it were innocent she would have said he was there and offered to put him on the phone for you. I would dump the friend and I would also take a long hard look at the faithfulness of my boyfriend. Just because she are pregnant does not mean you have to stay with someone who is mistreating you. Best of luck to you sweetie.

Answer 4

If your 'best friend' lied to you about a simple little thing like that what else could she be lying to you about. obviously she has something to hide. people always swear nowadays so its hard to believe what people say. you have to pick the sense out of the nonsense. furthermore hasnt you're boyfriend got any friends why did he sleep at your BEST FRIENDS house. something is not right there. but dont be discouraged by what i am telling you these things happen daily. however if your boyfriend lies to you then you really need to look into your self do you wanna be happy or do you wanna be lied to all you life and be with somone you cant trust

Answer 5

If nothing happened between them I wouldn't rush to any conclusions. You said you found out you were pregnant, Did they both know it as well? If so, there may have been a conversation as between friends. Who knows if there's anything behind it. I think you should give it a little time before you get yoursellf into a situation that you might later regret.

Answer 6

Firstly your best friend is NOT your friend and your boyfriend is not worth bothering with. How dare she swear on your unborn babies life. Get rid of both of them out of your life and move on, there is loads of support out there for single mothers, it will be tough to start but I am sure you are strong enough to do it. They are both horrible people, they cannot be trusted and without trust ther isn't anything. Don't allow them to treat you like this, have some self respect.

Answer 7

And you think this person is your friend, sorry but they are both lying to you, if nothing had or has happened then why lie about were your boyfriend was, dump them both and get yourself out of this situation before they get the chance to totally ruin your life.

Answer 8

To swear on Anybodys life is bad let alone children, dont waste your time on either of them. They obvioulsy concocted the story between themselves to stop them been caught out. to be honest chick i wouldnt bother with either of them, you are pregnant and dont need the stree of worry. I am sure you have other friends which will probably turn out to be a better friend than your current one. Good Luck.

Answer 9

They wouldn't lie if there was nothing to hide,

A friend wouldn't do that, so i'd find a new best friend,

As for your boyfriend you might want to give hime a second chance for your baby but, will you ever really trust him again?

Good Luck with your choice

Answer 10

A true best friend wouldn't have lied. Nor would she have tried to get with your man. Just think about that. U deserve a better man though.. also your friend to me isn't much of a friend. Hope things work out for u.

Answer 11

Get rid of them both I know its hard as ur are pregnant but wot u gotta ask ur self is do u trust them ?..would u leave them in a room together ? ... Why did he stay at her's couldnt he find his way home? does he stay out often? these are question u gotta ask yourself and answer them as truthfully as u possibly can and in the end you do wot is best for you and your baby and sod anyone else...