can any one help me? because i love her a lot
2006-08-03 01:14:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ignore these answers that say you should just know what she is thinking or feeling. .... lol... Do you really all fancy yourselves as being mind readers?? You can never really know what another person is thinking or if they are thinking at all!!!
You are sensible to make sure you are doing the right thing, and with the right timing, because there is a chance that asking early might ruin things. The only question then is whether it wouldve been any better to wait, or if she would have said no anyway.
I would tend to say go for it, unless you have only been going out for a very short time, in which case you would want to be pretty damned sure.
If you love her, you must go for it, part of marriage is that you should be able to express yourself fully, what better way to start than putting it on the line and proposing?
2006-08-10 20:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by Jeremy D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think when a woman is ready to marry a man it is quite obvious. I don't think that there should be a doubt in your mind that she would say no. I know that myself, and all of my married friends included, made it quite obvious to their significant others that they were ready to get married. Before you pop the big question, maybe ask her what her plans for the future are, so you can get an idea of whether or not she has the same feelings as you.
2006-08-03 01:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by star 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm confused you said you love her but you don't know if you should ask her to marry you is it because your afraid that she could say NO don't let this stop you - you'll never know if you don't ask and even if she says no she just may ask for another year or something and marry you in the following year don't let fear bound you GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!
GOOD LUCK GOD BLESS
2006-08-03 01:22:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her talk to her and tell her that you love her so much and you want to marry her,if she say yes,then thats good,if she say no,then maybe she is not ready or either there is another reasons why she says no,so good luck!
2006-08-10 23:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_apple 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best answer that I can give you is that's, what love is all about is sharing life togather,If you really love this girl like you say you do then ask her, but don't be to scare to ask her that you want to marry her. you ask the big question to her, she will be in shock at frist but, she may say yes or no to you, but if she say yes to you that means that she really love you, she may say wait while. here my say is that when my boyfriend ask me to marry him, I did't know what to say at frist then I was in so much in shock to hear that from him but I said yes to him, becouse that's what love is all about being together. I hope this will help you alots, good luck to you god bless you....
2006-08-03 03:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by bobbie a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your thoughts and expectations scare you away from asking her hand for marriage.
You should know it; you're spending more time with each other to evaluate that fact much much more than anyone else.You must know her through & through obviously otherwise it's not even an issue to spend your lifetime with her.
Good luck.
2006-08-10 21:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by cascadingrainbows 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her enough to want to marry her, just ask. The worse that can happen is that she'll say no. In that case, she just wasn't the one.
2006-08-03 01:17:58 · answer #7 · answered by sam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once you're having doubts about no matter if she loves then you there is something incorrect including your relationship. i'd not ask till you're effective that she is the single you prefer to spend something of your existence with.
2016-10-15 10:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know if she loves you, and you're not sure you should ask her to marry you.. then you aren't ready to be married. I would wait until you were sure you were ready, and sure that she loves you. No one can truly tell if she loves you but yourself.
2006-08-03 02:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by Mary J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to marry her then you should be mature enough to talk about it. What if she never wants to get married or never wants to have kids? You should be talking about this stuff before you ask her to marry you.
2006-08-03 02:34:30 · answer #10 · answered by michiganwife 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋