We have a child and he has been miles away for five years now, we do communicate on and off and am not sure of his commitment to me and our daughter. And whenever I ask him he doesn't give me a straight answer.
2006-08-03 00:10:36 · 19 answers · asked by milandaworld 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He doesn't want anything to do with you except for sex...
You need to move on GF and find a real man.
2006-08-03 00:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just a fast food restaurant 2 him. When it's time he's here, he will drops in 2 fill up what he needs. He'll definitely, confirmly, shook his head 2 inform u that this is not his last destination! Pls be prepared 2 stand on ur own feet. Take this opportunities 2 look 4 ur real man who's really willing 2 share his life with u.
2006-08-03 00:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by ladytibits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think in 5 years your child's father hasn't slept with anyone?
the mere fact that he has been gone says enough.
even if he is in the army, you and your child could live close by depending on the location.
It sounds as if he doesn't want to hurt you. H would like for you to discontinue asking that question.
Dodging a question or being silent is the same as responding No without being direct.
Move on!
2006-08-03 00:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by nubianbx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got skeletons in his closet, dear. He needs to come clean with you about his shifty attitude. The fact that he has a child with you and he's miles away shows that his level of commitment in this relationship is at level ZERO.
I hate to say this, but if he doesn't give you a definite answer about your future with him.....the silence speaks for itself. He doesn't have the balls to give you his word of commitment.
You need to find the strength to move on, dear. Many women have overcome adversities in life alone. What you need now is to garner enough strength for your child's future. Don't exhaust yourself searching for this man. Focus on your child now.
2006-08-03 00:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he doesn't know what he wants, or he doesn't want future with you. It might seem that the first alternative is better but it is actually worse. How can he not know what he wants if he has a kid with you?
Don't wait for him to decide what he wants or to tell you that he doesn't want to be with you anymore. Waiting is too painful and stressfull and you will not gain anything by it. Ask him once more, just to be on the safe side, and if he doesn't answer in a way you want him to, let him go. Life is too valuable and too short to spend it wondering and waiting. Your daughter will understand it once.
2006-08-03 00:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by hellothere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a future with this coniving fool. Don't sit around and wait form him to play with your mind, find yourself a man who will love you and your daughter enoug to start a family and be a loving father and a loving husband. Keep Well.
2006-08-03 00:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to ask anything about your future from a real and responsible man. he knows what he must do. STOP thinking!!! 5 years is enough or should i say TOO LONG!!!
2006-08-03 00:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have stated your own answer! Five years... hello!! Not around, but communicates on and off...hello!! commitment... yeah right.
2006-08-03 00:18:28 · answer #8 · answered by lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him that you are moving on unless he can commit to you and your child.
2006-08-03 00:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be ready or want to think about the future yet
2006-08-03 00:15:58 · answer #10 · answered by rel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋