How can I get my GF to reply?

Question

My GF and I have been arguing a lot because she gets mad at the smallest and unimportant things. Whenever she gets mad she changes completely! Now she got really mad and broke up with me (which has happened before). She won't reply to my text messages or my im's how can I get her to reply so we can fix this?

The reason she got mad at me lately because I invited her to go to our college organization's rummage sale. I told her to come so we could sell more stuff. She said I was a user, using her to be able to sell stuff. I was just inviting her.

Answer 1

Maybe you need to just let her stew for a while...

Get on with your life... And when she has calmed down, she'll be in touch...

Failing that, send one final message that says "Okay, you obviously don't want to talk to me, so let's just call the whole thing off" and see what happens...

Answer 2

This is a pattern that will only change when you stop accepting it.
She breaks up with you and you go crawling up her butt every time.
maybe if you stop sweating her even though you miss her, she would second think her reactions or either leave you alone for good.
she doesn't value the relationship and she doesn't respect your feelings.
she takes you for granted.
Stop texting her. let her think that maybe you are too busy for her. let her sweat you for a change and if she doesn't call you maybe she has a another candidate on the side and utilizes arguments as a way to explore or maybe she doesn't want to be in this relationship.

Answer 3

Haha. I've got the best way to hear from her....I bet this works. Tell her in a text that you agree a break up is the best thing.

She's doing it for attention or shits and giggles. Or, rather than texting this message, go around and tell her. She'll be putty in your fingers.

Answer 4

What was the argument about?

I am sorry but that's a really silly reason to break up for. She is strange. She does not seem to appreciate you. She seems to be playing with you. Don't contact her. She will realise. Us women, we can be pretty stupid but once we see that the guy stopps paying attention to us, we worry. Don't fix it. Let her fix it. She hurt your feelings, let her work for it. She will not respect you otherwise. And ask yourself, if she really loved you, would she break up with you because of this?

I must admit that I was doing this to my boyfriend as well. I kept pushing him away, I kept being angry, I ignored him if I would be upset. Well, he had enough with me and he said that he was leaving. I have not tried once since he said that to play such game with him again. If she wants you, she will realise once you stand up for yourself!

Answer 5

for starters give her a couple of days to relax, obviously something big is bothering her that refuses to share with you...then you send her one more message saying something like you're sorry you broke up but you would at least like her to tell you a reason or something and don't act like you never existed,since after all you've being part of her life, as she has been for yours, but don't send her loads of messages

Answer 6

I am afraid your going to have to go round and see her.

PS take some padding with you and a gum shield if she gets really, really mad like you say

Answer 7

But why she always cursing and getting mad for stupid things? well, if u still love her, you shud give her some time to find herself. shes not replying you because shes still upset. its best u make up reall good. send her flowers, or chocolate.........

Answer 8

look such tantrums r never a part of true love,if she really loves u she herself wil come bck to u,if not then u thank god tat u did'nt marry her otherwise she wud hav turned her back to u at her whim & left u mourning.

Answer 9

Stop using technology and go over to her house and explain to her what you have to say. Don't forget the flowers pal

Answer 10

Has she cheated on you? Have you cheated on her or do 1 of you suspect ... maybe time 2 find another g/f