How do I get my husband to share the money and the choices and to stop borrowing money from the check places?

Answer 1

well i do not know how to make him....but i think he should be sharing the money and i think it is wrong that you have to go to check places to get money...does he not want you to have what you need..i would talk to him and tell him that he is to provide for his family and that you think and i imagine a lot of women think that he should be sharing the money you all have..usually married people have joint accounts...i think it is wrong what he is making you do...but i do not know how to make a man do anything....

Answer 2

First and foremost, open a checking and/or savings account in your OWN name. If you don't work outside the home, get a job and start depositing your paycheck into your account. You may also want to close the joint charge cards. If one spouse is making bad finacial choices, both will be penalized. Protect yourself.

Answer 3

Get a JOB....make your own $$$$ don't co-mingle $$$$ Have an account in your own name.....

Do not co-sign anything with your spouse unless you want to be held financially responsible for it.

Your husband is a conrol freak....but you're enabling him to have control...GET a backbone....Tell him if he continues your financially ruin....you'll be leaving him!!

Stick to your guns!!! Be independant.....and get out of your codependency RUT!